mryounggun
OG
I'm tryna understand something real quick. Bear with me.
Those who think it's disrespectful on your woman's part, what specifically do you find disrespectful about it?
her accepting the invitation with the quickness. Didnt even suggest to just ship it if getting shoes from dude mattered that much or gtfoh. To me sounds like she still in love with the ex and taking the bait
whole situation was an L waiting to happen. Reason you dont get serious with anyone 1-2years removed from a serious relationship
That she just accepted the invite without making sure that it was ok with you first. Gotcha. Understood. That makes sense.
Another question: What specifically about the scenario makes you believe that she's still in love with her ex?
not even that - she could have told me nothing and did her thing anyways. Its not about me giving permission - goes back to respect of what we got and understanding we have.
I could be wrong but it prob took longer than 12mths from them to fall in love to the point of engagement - detoxing from that in a year WHILE in a new relationship is how these types of threads/discussions get created
I gotta question - What does respect in a relationship mean to you?
Ok, so what specifically do you find disrespectful? That's what I'm tryna understand and get to the root of. I asked what you found disrespectful. You said 'her accepting the invitation with the quickness'.
Then you said the bolded, when I confirmed it. So I'm legit confused. Not even trying to be funny.
What specifically do you feel she did that was disrespectful? Serious question.
Not just for you. For anyone.
To answer your question, respect if about being considerate of your partners thoughts, feelings, world view, likes, dislikes, etc.