Imo it's besides the point. Fab isn't upset for no reason, I'm sure in his mind he has a valid reason to be upset. If my girl fucks my cousin, I have a valid reason to be upset, but even that, is no reason to approach my baby mother with a knife and allegedly beating her ass.
Yall looking for ways to place blame on the woman, nobody's calling her a saint. But there's no reason you can come up with that will excuse him beating her.
all males are not men.
im actually not blaming the woman....im saying i dont know enough.
regardless of if its right or wrong to hit a chick, all guys aint got control. hell most people dont have control....once thats known....either you leave or not provoke. thing happen....that may cause other things to happen. at some point someone needs to maintain control and walk away.
that doesnt mean hes wrong and shes right.
what may make me hit someone because of my background might be something you would laugh at.
but we cant just act like we as humans cant have our buttons pushed.
as a man i would have to do whatever i must to keep her away from dude. this is more than about just this abuse....we are just seeing the end result.
if we know about her history of abuse why didnt her family? why didnt they step in earlier? if they did why did this continue? why why why why why....
i get where the ladies are coming from as well as the men....but this is a bigger problem yet a small part we are seeing.
we cant try to look at the end to correct something...we must all try to stop it from happening again. and to get to that point you have to look at everything and everybody.
he may be very guilty of the physical part. but abuse comes in many different forms. some that lead to reactionary abuse. yet we still only see the end results.