Does It Matter How A Woman Chooses To Dress?

[Judge Dread]

There is a time and a place for everything. My wife is relatively conservative with her clothes but she is trini so the first time I saw pictures of her at carnival or the first time we went to carnival it was like a different person. Because she would never dress like that outside of the house here. She doesn't even like bathing suits that show everything. I say this to say if you meet someone at carnival don't judge even if it is a party. If you see someone walking down Flatbush on a Tuesday and she is extra you know she is extra!!!!

 

[Golden]

There is a time and a place for everything. My wife is relatively conservative with her clothes but she is trini so the first time I saw pictures of her at carnival or the first time we went to carnival it was like a different person. Because she would never dress like that outside of the house here. She doesn't even like bathing suits that show everything. I say this to say if you meet someone at carnival don't judge even if it is a party. If you see someone walking down Flatbush on a Tuesday and she is extra you know she is extra!!!!

You in BK too brah? Your wife might be my family lol

 

[Judge Dread]

You ever notice strippers dress very conservative during the day?

Not really. They were a lot of stuff that is not tight and stuff like that but I would say conservatively.

 

[Judge Dread]

You in BK too brah? Your wife might be my family lol

could be. Most of her family is still there tho

 

[Golden]

Am I the only person here who's never seen strippers walkin down the street like that? How u even know they're strippers if they in pedestrian gear n off the clock?

Where do y'all live?

 

[Judge Dread]

She's doing too much. She dressed like she's ready to go out to a hole in the wall club. All her butt is out. She could showoff her curves with out revealing so much.

Again. It depends on where she is and where she is going . But we are using a bad example. We already know what type of person she is.

 

[Judge Dread]

Am I the only person here who's never seen strippers walkin down the street like that? How u even know they're strippers if they in pedestrian gear n off the clock?

Where do y'all live?

Let's just say I know one or 2 (before marriage). They travel in packs because they can't really hang out with girls that don't have the same lifestyle so if you meet one you are likely to be around a lot of them and you in BK and you have not met one? If this was a couple of years ago I would feel like it was my duty to introduce you to some.

 

[Judge Dread]

Also, it's not like they walk down the street with a sign

 

[Goldie]

:lmao2:

 

[Golden]

Let's just say I know one or 2 (before marriage). They travel in packs because they can't really hang out with girls that don't have the same lifestyle so if you meet one you are likely to be around a lot of them and you in BK and you have not met one? If this was a couple of years ago I would feel like it was my duty to introduce you to some.

Not once. Might be cuz I'm a woman n not a stripper, if as u say they stick with women in the field.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

wats ur hypothesis on y b

For balance I guess.

 

[Judge Dread]

Not once. Might be cuz I'm a woman is not a stripper, if as u say they stick with women in the field.

I would still introduce you. You might not need to be life long friends but you would find that for the most part they are regular people. That is why you don't know them just walking down the street.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Am I the only person here who's never seen strippers walkin down the street like that? How u even know they're strippers if they in pedestrian gear n off the clock?

Where do y'all live?

I used to know a couple girls who were strippers and all of them dressed very conservative during the day.

 

[Golden]

I would still introduce you. You might not need to be life long friends but you would find that for the most part they are regular people. That is why you don't know them just walking down the street.

I agree with you. It's just a job at the end of the day.

I was just curious how y'all had seen strippers in clothes at a large enough scale to notice a pattern. I would've thought they wouldn't be making friends with clients on the job like that, or working at clubs 50 feet away from where they do their groceries.

Did u meet them at the club?

 

[Judge Dread]

I agree with you. It's just a job at the end of the day.

I was just curious how y'all had seen strippers in clothes at a large enough scale to notice a pattern. I would've thought they wouldn't be making friends with clients on the job like that, or working at clubs 50 feet away from where they do their groceries.

Did u meet them at the club?

I was never a client or anything. I used to have an investment in a restaurant and got introduced to all sorts of people. So I met one or two and became friends

 

[Golden]

I was never a client or anything. I used to have an investment in a restaurant and got introduced to all sorts of people. So I met one or two and became friends

Nice. Were they open about it being their profession or did they tell you after becoming cool?

 

[Judge Dread]

They were open probably because they figured I had money but quickly learned that they were not getting any of it. Also most approached me differently because I move a certain way. So once it was establiblshed that I wasn't the type to be all in the club popping bottles and making it rain it was cool. They would come and spend money at the restaurant and I treated them like I would treat a man that spent plenty of money. That lead to hanging out outside the club. So I got to know them. I am just not a judgmental person or try my best not to be because I get judged all the time.

 

[Judge Dread]

Also surprisingly I met one in my building when I lived downtown. You know what downtown Brooklyn is like now. There were boxers, actors and entertainers all living down there so everybody was just everybody.

 

[Golden]

Thank u for shedding light

Also surprisingly I met one in my building when I lived downtown. You know what downtown Brooklyn is like now. There were boxers, actors and entertainers all living down there so everybody was just everybody.

They making big money like that? Which clubs they strip at? For research purposes of coooooourse

 

[Judge Dread]

Starlets and places like that. In Miami the usual suspects KOD's but they said they made more money in white clubs then black clubs. Also not really in contact with them like that anymore. Mrs Lurker and I were friends for years before we started dating and part of the reason was because she was very suspect of some of my friends. But she met most and because she didn't know names I used to play guess what they do with her. Sometimes she could and others she couldn't.