DO YOU GO THROUGH YOUR PARTNERS PHONE?

[Golden]

Me neither but people are gonna do what they do regardless. And if I'm doing all that, then that means I don't really trust my own ability to align myself with honorable people. I would basically be waiting for or even expecting someone to do me wrong. Then I would have to ask myself why I would even voluntarily be around someone who I expect to do me dirty.

Nah it's on general principle. Not individual. Negative OCD perhaps?
I respect your view though.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

lol @ ask questions. If a mf's cheating on you , u think they're gonna say "yea I was just fuckin marvin earlier, thought u should know" lol be realistic b

If she is cheating, most likely she will lie, but I'll still ask. There's also usually blatant red flags that made you suspicious in the first place.

This happened to me once. I asked, she lied about it like you said, but there were also several other signs that I chose to ignore, and my dumb ass paid that price. I could only blame myself in the end. But I still wouldn't go through her phone.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Nah it's on general principle. Not individual. Negative OCD perhaps?
I respect your view though.

But a general principle of being overly cautious is rooted in fear. The "what ifs"...

 

[Golden]

But a general principle of being overly cautious is rooted in fear. The "what ifs"...

Probability, sadly. I inform prospective partners way ahead of time tho.

 

[Race Jones]

So yall playing CIA detectives n' shit in whats supposed to be a healthy relationship?

CANT RELATE.

 

[Duwop]

I've done it before when we was dating...

I was more insecure cuz we were in a long distance relationship

 

[The Comedian]

I go through their phone to see if they took pictures of any injuries when they fell down the stairs or walked into a wall. It's an trusting relationship, never had any incidents

 

[IP360]

Probability, sadly. I inform prospective partners way ahead of time tho.

"Hey I really like you, and see us going somewhere wit this. Oh btw, I'm gonna go thru your phone at some point in time. Probably your emails too. Matter of fact, just go ahead and give me your passwords. Makes things easy for me."

BNE's Potential Partner: HAHA...

 

[Golden]

"Hey I really like you, and see us going somewhere wit this. Oh btw, I'm gonna go thru your phone at some point in time. Probably your emails too. Matter of fact, just go ahead and give me your passwords. Makes things easy for me."

BNE's Potential Partner: HAHA...
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[Race Jones]

LMAO @BNE how do you let your partner know you're about to be all up in their shit sis?

 

[Golden]

LMAO @BNE how do you let your partner know you're about to be all up in their shit sis?

Early dating or pre-dating disclaimer. I don't trust u hoes, it's nothing personal. U know.

 

[Race Jones]

Early dating or pre-dating disclaimer. I don't trust u hoes, it's nothing personal. U know.

After you grow to trust them, do you still go through their phone?

 

[The Comedian]

Early dating or pre-dating disclaimer. I don't trust u hoes, it's nothing personal. U know.

A good staircase or two would fix that for you.

 

[Golden]

After you grow to trust them, do you still go through their phone?

Maybe once every year or so

 

[Race Jones]

Maybe once every year or so

a seasonal creeper huh?

:youmad:

 

[Chi-Town B]

Women just asking for their hands to be broken touching a dudes phone

 

[Golden]

a seasonal creeper huh?

:youmad:

More a "shit, it's been a while since I did a check" type myself. It's like spring cleaning fr.

 

[Race Jones]

Women just asking for their hands to be broken touching a dudes phone

Have you ever caught someone going through your phone?

 

[Chi-Town B]

Have you ever caught someone going through your phone?

Nope, I give no reason for her to wanna snoop

 

[MissK]

I think if you are at a point where you feel the need to go through their phone then you already know something is up or don't trust them.

I have never been through a phone and I feel like if something is going on usually they will tell on themselves anyway so no real point.

Trust your gut. I've ignored mine before and had shit blow up in my face. I am still not going through your phone-it's only going to hurt me more.