Was it mentioned Lela has a health condition?
Some of you niggas excusing this shit are disgusting.
Some of you niggas excusing this shit are disgusting.
Nah fuck that, it's fuck them until the day I dieNot if I get a divorce and don't have to deal with either one of them
Gotta let that shit go
I'm not surprisedNah fuck that, it's fuck them until the day I die
Oh you lost your hair? You fell the fuck off.i have actually stayed around the same weight since my early 20's
175-200.
only thing i would get is a lil belly....and i can drop that within two weeks.
only thing different about me in my prime and now is im bald as a kneecap.
but with the new man weaves.....nigga bout to have waves back
I’m high. Ima read this later.Several of them have admitted that in this thread or acknowledged they're overweight. The point of what I think koncept was saying goes both ways. At the same time one person becoming overweight or whatever isn't an excuse to say to hell with it all either. There's always a dynamic in a relationship and power struggle somewhere, look at couples where one person is enormously more successful than the other person and how often those last or one person ends up cheating or whatever.
I think the disconnect is you have people adding personal views outside of health issues like Lupus and others saying it's Lupus to blame. Problem with this premise is we don't have a reliable source to say Lela has Lupus and at the same time it doesn't matter even if she does, somewhere in the relationship things fell off and it's evident they had something enough for him to be with her for 20 something years and to marry her. It's easy to say he's a piece of shit but rarely do we look at behaviors from both sides. Both of them are in the wrong.
i have actually stayed around the same weight since my early 20's
175-200.
only thing i would get is a lil belly....and i can drop that within two weeks.
only thing different about me in my prime and now is im bald as a kneecap.
but with the new man weaves.....nigga bout to have waves back
it was a joke....im cool being bald..You gotta relax...LMAOOOOOO
think so?Oh you lost your hair? You fell the fuck off.
I know re the former... thumbs up re the latter.it was a joke....im cool being bald..
BOOM!Several of them have admitted that in this thread or acknowledged they're overweight. The point of what I think koncept was saying goes both ways. At the same time one person becoming overweight or whatever isn't an excuse to say to hell with it all either. There's always a dynamic in a relationship and power struggle somewhere, look at couples where one person is enormously more successful than the other person and how often those last or one person ends up cheating or whatever.
I think the disconnect is you have people adding personal views outside of health issues like Lupus and others saying it's Lupus to blame. Problem with this premise is we don't have a reliable source to say Lela has Lupus and at the same time it doesn't matter even if she does, somewhere in the relationship things fell off and it's evident they had something enough for him to be with her for 20 something years and to marry her. It's easy to say he's a piece of shit but rarely do we look at behaviors from both sides. Both of them are in the wrong.
I love when niggas talk big shit like they asses can’t be bad built either. I’m pretty sure half y’all don’t look how you looked in your “prime”.
I disagree.I don't think anyone has limited this to one direction. Most people defending Fuqua would probably say the same things in support of Rochon if the roles were reversed.
I think he should just get a divorce.
It aint his job to fix that woman if he aint break her.
Thats a big if tho...
I suspect she didnt enter that relationship broken.
He needs to take some ownership, she aint just go to sleep fine and wake up looking like Fiona, that was prime real estate right there, and coulda been the difference between them paying for monthly electricity or getting on the Tesla Powerbank.
But thats just me....