DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
true but alot of both ...seem to think whats good for one is good for them.i dont have a problem with a woman saying a good man is hard to find. my question to her would be what is a good man? all women (men too) gotta realize "good" is personal. there is no definition of a good man that is universal. a car, a house, a good job. i guess that could be true but she needs to get to know the guys situation. what if he had a house and sold it to go back to school or moved back home to take care of his ailing parents. basically if a woman says that to u then ask her what is her definition of a good man. if she can tell u (and should be able to tell u) i am sure it will be easy to make her see that good men are all over the place.
and kinda like what @Judge_Judah said....i did the same when i met my wife...i checked out her friends. i tell her that it was due to her best friend is why i married her...she still doesnt understand.
but she got people around her that talked big shit about me. either im not doing enough or im doing too much..but either way i cant be trusted.
if you doing too much...then you trying to cover something up
if you not doing enough then you doing something for another woman.
and good forbid they find out we had an argument.....then the 11plus years of shit goes out the window..yet they claim to want someone like me.
none of these chicks want to take shit from anyone while giving shit.
none of these chicks want to buy shit while expecting shit to be bought for them
all of these chicks will tell you what they wont do but expect you to do everything
they be the first ones saying if he dont give you a ring leave him
they be the first ones congratulating a chick on getting proposed to
but then be the same chicks celebrating with divorce parties.
shit dont make sense.