How is showing that the question could be answered in different ways proving its a loaded question.
If a man kills a woman that's 20 weeks pregnant he can be charged for double homicide. Do you agree with that law?
20 weeks yes. Which is why I said there's a difference between asking that question about someone pregnant at 20 weeks vs 5 weeks. Your question being loaded comes in because of your admitted belief that whether it's 5, 10 or 20 weeks you feel there's a life in there regardless and unless you establish first whether or not the person you're asking that question to also shares that belief then for those who don't agree their answer will seem inherently place them as basically a child killer as has already been stated by someone who is pro life
Now that very last part...that's where some of this discussion lies at as well and that's ultimately what drives the decision making. The time frame just muddies up the discussion on whether or not that embryo is a life of its own
Im pro to giving mfers the choice to do whatever they want.
It doesnt mean i would want a girl I got pregnant to get an abortion, but it doesnt have too.
Why would I want to force what I want on others? Shits weird.
True.
It really is two different arguments:
Right to choose............and when life starts.
I don't believe in abortion, but I realize it's not my place to tell a woman what she should or shouldn't do with her body.
However, people lose me when they try to justify their stance based on when they "think" life starts.
Simply because, if they truly believe in a woman's right to choose.........it really shouldn't matter either way when they think life starts.
To me, it just seems like they're using it as a way to come to terms with the actual act of quote/unquote......"terminating a pregnancy."
I think it's more seen as protecting those that can't protect themselves. I think that's a big part of the pro life vs pro choice debate is which perspective you choose. You view it as telling a woman what to do... which is fair. But others can view it as protecting a baby that can't protect itself.
Why at 20 weeks would you consider it murder? If I'm understanding correctly, by your standards it's not a life at that point.
Its not loaded because it intentionally follows the popular pro-choice standard. If you say an abortion is OK before the baby can survive on its own because it's not a life at that point... then what's the difference between 5, 10, 15, and 20 weeks if at all those points the baby can't survive on its own?
I think it's more seen as protecting those that can't protect themselves. I think that's a big part of the pro life vs pro choice debate is which perspective you choose. You view it as telling a woman what to do... which is fair. But others can view it as protecting a baby that can't protect itself.
No that's not correct. My opinion on the 20 weeks time frame is more based on social than science as I do think that by that time there should have been enough time to decide whether or not, given there's no health issues for the mother or fetus, on whether or not to carry to full term and at 20 weeks pregnant in the minds of the majority at that point life does exist even if it's in its infant stages of doing so. So by 20 weeks if the woman has most likely decided to carry to full term and she were to be harmed in any way then yes at that point her and the growing life inside her is harmed. At 5 weeks not so much.
This sounds like moving the goal posts unless I missed something. I feel like you've mentioned how developed the fetus is as a key point a few times, and at what point it's considered a life.
Now you're basing life on how long the mother had to think it over, and the baby's ability to survive is irrelevant?
If she like 7 months pregnant or something obvious yea I have no problem with folks saying something. But trying to decide if someone else should be able to terminate their pregnancy or not is wild to me.
I can separate my personal beliefs from what the law states or others opinions. I've mentioned that because to some a life isn't considered a life until it has a viable chance to survive on its own. Hence me also mentioning people with do not resuscitate orders or people who have stated if they're ever in a vegetable state to let them die because to them that's not living as they can't survive on their own.
But I also recognize the social view that once a pregnancy has reached a certain point it's pretty much agreed upon by most that life does exist which is why a 20 week time frame vs a 5 week time frame are two very different points of decision making.
You keep saying agreed upon by most, but I don't think that's the case. Pro-life people may all agree that at 20 weeks there's life, yes. But no, I don't think it's agreed upon by most pro-choicers that 20 weeks is life. We've had people base life on the ability to survive on its own and consciousness, and at 20 weeks the baby has neither.
You can't compare this to DNR's. That's the person making a decision for themselves, and it's usually based on avoiding a permanently poor quality of life.
But let's make it a more apples to apples comparison. Let's say the doctor is telling a wife that her husband is a vegetable for now, but he's expected to make a full recovery and wake up just fine in 7 months with no lingering issues. Would you be ok with people pulling the plug in those scenarios? Do you think the husband would want the plug pulled in that scenario?
The comparison is in what constitutes being alive or having life which is where the main point of the abortion discussion lies. Also many people decide to have an abortion because they don't want to bring a child into this world and have them experience a poor quality of life that can set them on a path they may not he able to recover from. Or affect their own quality of life to a point they may not be able handle. So the reasoning still fits as it's a person taking control of where and how they want their life to go.
Your scenario you just created once again doesn't fit because there's a known conclusion to the scenario. In the beginning stages of a pregnancy anything can happen. Hell there's a multitude of stories of women who didn't even realize they were pregnant or having a miscarriage they just thought it was an unusually heavy period that month. So trying to compare a situation with an already established end result in your scenario vs one where the results could very well be up in the air depending on many different circumstances still doesn't fit that well.
The non-medical reasons for aborting the baby have nothing to do with if the fetus is a life or not. I don't get the purpose of any of that part.
Stop changing the scenario i give to avoid an answer. I said the doctor said the husband is EXPECTED to make a full recovery with no lingering issues. That's the same expectation of pregnancy. That's why doctors give you a due date... they're expecting you to have a baby. And they continue this expectation until they have a reason to think otherwise. I didn't give a known conclusion...I gave a medical expectation.
Can you answer now?
The non medical reasons absolutely do influence the idea of whether or not a fetus is considered a life. Or else people wouldn't say shit like "why not just put the baby up for adoption" to women who are still in the early stages of the 1st trimester and considering abortion. To discount that is to discount a good portion of people's objections to abortions aka your side of the argument and the reactions it brings
And your scenario still doesn't fit because someone being in a vegetable state doesn't often have a set time frame for coming out of it. That's why it's called being in a vegetable state. What you're talking about is more like a coma and even then there's no time guaranteed time frame for someone to come out of those depending on their injury.
Truthfully if we cannot give the "breath of life", we shouldn't take it.I wonder if everyone feels the same about the death penalty? Are there parameters for when it's ok and when it's not ok for one's life to be "taken". I might add there isn't any concensus on when life starts. But I find it interesting for those who have degrees and circumstances for death. I think humans put too much on death in terms of understanding what's really going on.