Is emotional abuse a real thing?

MissK said:
Were you birthed by a woman Goldie? got damn man

y'all the 'worst kind of people'
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lol i'm just a realist b and this isn't about genders cuz this whole thread derived from a discussion of men being "emotionally abused".
 
Kandy Pants said:
I find it hard to believe that a person knows no one else. Not even a coworker, a damn stranger on the street. I guess I'll have to be in those shoes to know but I know me, and I know I'm going to get out, dead or alive because abuse is something I don't have to take.
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TheMasterKey said:
If she's a weak minded mf it's HER FAULT.

If a scam artist tricks u, who's fault is that?
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must be two sides then

ya'll the same ones who was in the cheating thread saying that your s/o shouldnt be talking to other people, but if a person is getting abused, its their fault they dont know/talk to anyone else?

i really implore ya'll to talk to some domestic violence situations. Ya'll tripping
 
AP21 said:
goldie, sometimes, its like this

i know you've heard a pimp say they make love to their mind...if a dude get all up in a woman's psyche, he absolutely can make her feel like NO one else will want her if she leaves, NO one will believe her if she tells, NO one wants to be her friend, etc...

its not different from mental slavery brah
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This is lost on goldie, I tried to explain exactly this to him but bruh didn't wanna hear it. Apparently people can just up and leave after years of co-dependence.
 
AP21 said:
must be two sides then

ya'll the same ones who was in the cheating thread saying that your s/o shouldnt be talking to other people, but if a person is getting abused, its their fault they dont know/talk to anyone else?

i really implore ya'll to talk to some domestic violence situations. Ya'll tripping
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lmaoooooooooo dont do that! When have I ever said "She cant talk to NOBODY!" , really dude? lol

If u can show me where i said my girl cant have female friends I'll leave the site
 
Joshua said:
This is lost on goldie, I tried to explain exactly this to him but bruh didn't wanna hear it. Apparently people can just up and leave after years of co-dependence.
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Explain to me why somebody can't leave
 
First yall came with this extreme example like this mf never met anybody else on earth but their s/o, but even then , why can't they get a job and pay for a place like everybody fuckin else?
 
AP21 said:
must be two sides then

ya'll the same ones who was in the cheating thread saying that your s/o shouldnt be talking to other people, but if a person is getting abused, its their fault they dont know/talk to anyone else?

i really implore ya'll to talk to some domestic violence situations. Ya'll tripping
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I never said my s/o couldn't talk to anyone else. What kinda dumb shit is that? Please quote me.

I know a few people who were abused. Two who happen to be my best friends.
 
AP21 said:
goldie, sometimes, its like this

i know you've heard a pimp say they make love to their mind...if a dude get all up in a woman's psyche, he absolutely can make her feel like NO one else will want her if she leaves, NO one will believe her if she tells, NO one wants to be her friend, etc...

its not different from mental slavery brah
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Do you believe prostitutes that have pimps are victims?
 
TheMasterKey said:
First yall came with this extreme example like this mf never met anybody else on earth but their s/o, but even then , why can't they get a job and pay for a place like everybody fuckin else?
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bruh i said there are women out of the workforce for years so tell me how they gonna pay for a place to live on minimum wage. I'll wait
 
TheMasterKey said:
lmaoooooooooo dont do that! When have I ever said "She cant talk to NOBODY!" , really dude? lol

If u can show me where i said my girl cant have female friends I'll leave the site
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you might not...but thats you...there are men and women, that exist to try and pry ANY an EVERY outside influence from their s/o lives, making them the ONLY person they deal with

I told you, its not so flagrant to the point where ya'll can just be like "aww hell naw"...ya'll act like people be divulging this information on the first date

shit, for the most part, happens over time. The duration varies, but still, its not something thats just instantaneous
 
MissK said:
bruh i said there are women out of the workforce for years so tell me how they gonna pay for a place to live on minimum wage. I'll wait
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Get 2 jobs like everybody else until u can get a better one.
 
TheMasterKey said:
Get 2 jobs like everybody else until u can get a better one.
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i knew this was your rebuttal, lol. I hate you b

so she can do that plus feed herself and children and all other expenses of living she might have. you living in an alternate universe

and as far as public housing it's not always easy to get this assistance-at least not immediately.
 
AP21 said:
you might not...but thats you...there are men and women, that exist to try and pry ANY an EVERY outside influence from their s/o lives, making them the ONLY person they deal with

I told you, its not so flagrant to the point where ya'll can just be like "aww hell naw"...ya'll act like people be divulging this information on the first date

shit, for the most part, happens over time. The duration varies, but still, its not something thats just instantaneous
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If you allow somebody to make u cut every and everybody in the world off, guess what? It' your fault
 
TheMasterKey said:
Explain to me why somebody can't leave
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I never said that they can't leave, what I'm saying is after years of living with this person, when things turn abusive, the person being abused is gonna try to repair the relationship and in many cases blame themselves in justification for the abuse. Most people won't get up and leave immediately, that's just not reality, that's some movie type shit.
 
MissK said:
i knew this was your rebuttal, lol. I hate you b

so she can do that plus feed herself and children and all other expenses of living she might have. you living in an alternate universe

and as far as public housing it's not always easy to get this assistance-at least not immediately.
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I've seen it done so I know it can be done, this is not some impossible shit, people do it all the time. Is it easy? nah, ofc not. It might be easier to put up with "emotional abuse" and stay at the place ur in and not work, but it can be done. It's still about choice.
 
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