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SOME ABW Men apparently diss black women: thread about passport bros again

I agree with all that.

However, I think it's just as silly to act like it's not feasible that certain types of women are more common outside of this country. We're not going to sit here and act like America doesn't have its ingrained sets of cultures and that most people in this country don't adhere to those cultures.

Of course different countries will produce folks with different ideas on how to go about some things. But the shit these dudes claim to not be able to find in the US they actually can. And it's not as hard as they claim to make it. So if their solution is to go to another country and start dealing with women who still fit a certain aestheic but the only difference is "she's foreign" then it's gonna look funny in the light when that list of grievances becomes less US specific and more specific to one group of people. Because you don't see these niggas going to find Black women in these countries.
 
We agree on some of it but not all of it. I'm not giving them passport bros as much grace

It ain't as much about me giving grace. I just don't know how you gonna tell another nigga what his dating experience has been like. You set on this idea that these dudes can easily find what they want in America, and I don't know that that's true. A lot of them dudes sound like they want some 1950s era chick, and that's not the average in America anymore.
 
It ain't as much about me giving grace. I just don't know how you gonna tell another nigga what his dating experience has been like. You set on this idea that these dudes can easily find what they want in America, and I don't know that that's true. A lot of them dudes sound like they want some 1950s era chick, and that's not the average in America anymore.

Because they're telling us what their dating experience has been like. It's kinda clear in their "complaints".
 
Because they're telling us what their dating experience has been like. It's kinda clear in their "complaints".

Yes, an your response seems to be to discount the possibility that it's not so easy to find the women they are looking for and to instead conclude they are liars or lames.

The only difference between my stance and yours is that I'm not going to do that. I believe it is possible that these dudes are having trouble find the women they want just like I believe there are some women that have trouble finding good men even though there are good men out there.
 
Yes, an your response seems to be to discount the possibility that it's not so easy to find the women they are looking for and to instead conclude they are liars or lames.

The only difference between my stance and yours is that I'm not going to do that. I believe it is possible that these dudes are having trouble find the women they want just like I believe there are some women that have trouble finding good men even though there are good men out there.

Well yeah them being lames would be part of their failure to attract the women here they claim to want because not being a lame ass nigga seems to work wonders when attracting women. And guess who is in control of whether or not they make women attracted to them?
 
This whole shit is sad and pathetic on both sides.

Seems to me that black men can't handle rejection enough, which is why they're leaving.

Seems to me black women can't handle being rejection by black men, which is why they're going at lengths to call the Bros out.

I'm just glad I'm not in this dating shit no mo'.
 
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Nah you know what I’m not gonna even say anything

I will.


Shorty really went out of her way to go after that man.


Docsed him and everything.


Notice how dude didn't say anything about black women at all.


He was only talking about westernized women in the states.


So he wasn't some raving lunatic that went on a vitriolic diatribe about how much he hates black women.


Dude was just talking about how happy he was.


Basically, the energy some of y'all claim these dudes have applies more to women like the one who made that video.


I mean, why does she even care what that man is doing?


Why is she even watching his videos?


And people still doubt where the hostility is really coming from.
 
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I will.


Shorty really went out of her way to go after that man.


Docsed him and everything.


Notice how dude didn't say anything about black women at all.


He was only talking about westernized women in the states.


So he wasn't some raving lunatic that went on a vitriolic diatribe about how much he hates black women.


Dude was just talking about how happy he was.


Basically, the energy some of y'all claim these dudes have applies more to women like the one who made that video.


I mean, why does she even care what that man is doing?


Why is she even watching his videos?


And people still doubt where the hostility is really coming from.
Dude was already cringe though. Even before the slander at the end. And I was trying to withhold forming an opinion against him as it was…and then she came with that at the end I just threw my hands up. Lol.

Idk. I’m just not with the whole broadcasting, commoditizing of romance (which is supposed to be something special), PDA and all for social media doing what seem to be a trend to do. Niggas is not leaders. Lol. It’s tacky. It’s not gangsta-classy… it comes of as lame and snitchy, that’s the part that don’t sit well with me. And I could read it in the THai girl’s reaction though she tried to play it off lightly and play along. But whatever no big deal.

Now the girl that came out with the slander at end need to stop the foolishness. she was unprovoked yet threw salt in the game and try to make someone else look bad and in doing so show herself unworthy of trust (no surprise), lacking tact and class. And as if that wasn’t enough she also equated being “black” with another individual’s past bad choices/behavior like it was cute. With that behavior she bound to get shot or will never be entrusted with anything pure or sacred in life.

That sums up what I had on it.
 
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I will.


Shorty really went out of her way to go after that man.


Docsed him and everything.


Notice how dude didn't say anything about black women at all.


He was only talking about westernized women in the states.


So he wasn't some raving lunatic that went on a vitriolic diatribe about how much he hates black women.


Dude was just talking about how happy he was.


Basically, the energy some of y'all claim these dudes have applies more to women like the one who made that video.


I mean, why does she even care what that man is doing?


Why is she even watching his videos?


And people still doubt where the hostility is really coming from.
Damn I actually didn't watch the video in it's entirety. Was suffering from second hand embarrassment for the dude.
More power to him tho.

The chick shitting on him I'm sure has made a post about how unbothered she is about this or don't care about the passport bros but took time out to research slime etc.

Again people need to log off mayne
Niggaz and bitches fighting online wars but claim they don't care about each other.
 
Has visits to Jamaica for sex and Africa to find husbands mentioned yet?
We as a whole need to be fixed and look at each other with more hate and distrust than our oppressors.
All this shit goes Both ways….the problem is when only one side gets shamed and the other side celebrated and encouraged.
Don’t seem to me people want a solution. They want to be in control and want to be right.
Tv , unhappy bitter aunties who choose wrong and ran up the mileage and fake ass playas with 10 kids but only know 4 names have too much to say in early development .
 
I don't know bruh. I know there are more well traveled dudes out there than me, but in my travels, all that extra shit isn't as prevalent as it is here. I've traveled to some pretty black ass places in the Caribbean and some other places with healthy black populations and I didn't see nearly as many build-a-broads as I see on a daily basis living in MD.

I'm not saying they don't do it outside of this country, but I think it's incorrect to act like those dudes are going overseas to pick up chicks with the same look as you get over here. Hell, in that Africans vs AAs topic, someone posted a video of a black chick in the UK clowning AA women for their over-the-top makeup, so it's a mistake to act like black women worldwide are on the excessive shit that some AA women are on.


And I’ve seen Black American women fry Africans and Caribbeans for terrible wigs and makeup also. Like wtf are we talking about. How these niggas can’t find a black woman in America who don’t wear weaves and likes them is bullshit to me. It’s their truth I guess.
 
Dude was already cringe though. Even before the slander at the end. And I was trying to withhold forming an opinion against him as it was…and then she came with that at the end I just threw my hands up. Lol.

Idk. I’m just not with the whole broadcasting, commoditizing of romance (which is supposed to be something special), PDA and all for social media doing what seem to be a trend to do. Niggas is not leaders. Lol. It’s tacky. It’s not gangsta-classy… it comes of as lame and snitchy, that’s the part that don’t sit well with me. And I could read it in the THai girl’s reaction though she tried to play it off lightly and play along. But whatever no big deal.

Now the girl that came out with the slander at end need to stop the foolishness. she was unprovoked yet threw salt in the game and try to make someone else look bad and in doing so show herself unworthy of trust (no surprise), lacking tact and class. And as if that wasn’t enough she also equated being “black” with another individual’s past bad choices/behavior like it was cute. With that behavior she bound to get shot or will never be entrusted with anything pure or sacred in life.

That sums up what I had on it.


Dude might've come off as creepy and cringe, but he wasn't malicious or vindictive.


Apparently, he's also a content creator.


And since this is the hot topic of the moment on social media, he's just trying to get likes and views so he can get as much money as he can for his videos.


So, if there wasn't any money to be made off of these videos.......I doubt dudes would be putting them out at the rate that they are.


Basically, a lot of them are just trying to capitalize off the latest trend.


Now, if you look at the demeanor of the passport dudes and compare it with the demeanor of the women who make videos criticizing them.........it's clear as day that, for the most part, the anger is coming from the women......not the men.
 
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