I guess I'm a serial rapist then
I think everyone's definitions on what's being discussed is all over the place adding to the confusion of the thread:wecool:Bruh if you grab your wife up for a quickie and she's not turned on by it.... You might be...
My wife likes surprise sex, that shit ain't a chore
"Yea man, sometimes I gotta hold my wife down and force the dick in her"
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I see u ducked the question earlier so I'll ask again, have u ever took sex from a man who didn't wanna have it?
Rough, pinned down, violent, passionate, acrobatic, consensual sex ain't rape!They love that shit b
.....I didnt see it and yes I have demanded sex
It was wrong then and it is wrong now
I never "took" it tho. lets be clear.
If the phrase " whether you like it or not" ever enters the bedroom.....
You might be a tad bit rapey....
Just my opinion
As far as this thread it's you and Kandy..........and only one of two is single:icu1:@KandyPantsSeriously y'all the point should always be pleasurable for both no matter what. Here's how...
There is the obvious we both want it tonight and those are the most enjoyable and euphoric moments
Then there are times one of the two is not really in the mood. IMO I could deny him or I could find pleasure in pleasing him and that still makes it an enjoyable experience.
I never feel like it's a chore or an obligation to have sex with my husband even when I'm not feeling it. That's just stupid... I've never understood women who could confidently deny their husbands that release of energy. That's like deny myself satisfaction in seeing him be pleased.
However I'm a freak in the sheets and love sex so I'm probably one in a million but w/e
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