Black women have to take responsibility for their terrible parenting skills

Black mommas really say the nastiest shit to their children when angry. its hella gross and its honestly why a lot of men be out here speaking to women all types of ways.

they experience verbal abuse early on. the same with the women that call their men bitches or cuss and scream at their boyfriends/husbands and yell “thats why yo dick little punk bitch”

pretty sure that all reaches back to a toxic ass momma

Disgusting, ain't it? Never underestimate the power of generational ignorance. Some of them don't even understand that the shit ain't normal, or ideal and IS a problem...because they don't know any different.
 
I know a few Black women who act like this with their children.

I actually witness it often on Facebook in mom groups and they love saying shit like “no ones perfect” and “we do the best we can”. Nah, no you don’t sis. You don’t do your best because you don’t even know what your best could be.
 
I know a few Black women who act like this with their children.

I actually witness it often on Facebook in mom groups and they love saying shit like “no ones perfect” and “we do the best we can”. Nah, no you don’t sis. You don’t do your best because you don’t even know what your best could be.


whew* a fucking word
 
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Black mommas really say the nastiest shit to their children when angry. its hella gross and its honestly why a lot of men be out here speaking to women all types of ways.

they experience verbal abuse early on. the same with the women that call their men bitches or cuss and scream at their boyfriends/husbands and yell “thats why yo dick little punk bitch”

pretty sure that all reaches back to a toxic ass momma


It usually start wit anger these mothers have towards the niggas they have babies wit.

Either he's an ain't shyt nigga they despise. And b/c he's not in the picture, they decide unleash that anger on their children.

Or

The brotha is legit...he just no longer wants to wit that woman. So again she unleashes that anger on her kid(s), but also does petty things, just to get back at him.
 
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It seemed at one point, Oh Shit was having a new baby by a different every new season
 
i know looks are subjective but this chick looks like a muppet

not that it matters, but there are several things at play from her plastic surgery/deforming her body (another separate thread that plagues our women) and the fact she aint shit

for those of you trying to give her a pass b/c she "bad"...i think we need to have an intervention
 
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i know looks are subjective but this chick looks like a muppet

not that it matters, but there are several things at play from her plastic surgery/deforming her body (another separate thread that plagues our women) and the fact she aint shit

for those of you trying to give her a pass b/c she "bad"...i think we need to have an intervention

The biggest shit that got me out of all the many things about her. This bitch went and paid great money for I guess one of the best plastic surgeons "Dr. Miami".

Then episodes later this went to the same therapist that is provided to people on welfare.

So this bitch paid top dollar for plastic surgery but decided to be cheap as fuck when it came to her mental health.

Just one of the many things she has done over the years on that show that proved to me that she was a whole lower than an ain't shit bitch.
 
I think that part of the issue here is that society as a whole expects women to be naturally nurturing and maternal, when that often is not the case. There are many women who just don't have that in them.

If we are using Sky as the example, her own mother has manic depression and was extremely toxic as well (if I recall grandma was the one who gave the kids up when Sky was in jail). She's just passing that along to her sons. It's quite a sad cycle...
 
I'm just catching up to this whole sky shit.

I don't attribute bad parenting to exclusively sistas. It's a ppl thing and usually comes from ppl who were hurt growing up.

But this shit has hit our community hard. For her to say some shit like speaks volumes about her emotional scars. No emotionally healthy person acts that way. Until we can acknowledge that we are carrying hurt and pain from our childhood and stop attacking each other over it, we will keep going through the same cycle.