yall staying or dipping ?

[Banginscrew901]

Use to talk to a chick that was a firm believer of making the man wait. I told her that's the stupidest shit I ever heard of in my life. I'm like this if I'm offering to take you out to get to know you the least you can do if you feeling me is be on time.
I tried telling her early even left her while she was coming to the car for being late. She got on board after like 2 weeks but she was telling me i was wrong. Mofo would be late to any and everything I'm like not worth me you ain't

 

[Rubato]

30 mins is nothing, he was already gonna be there for that amt of time anyway

But his response leads me to believe there is some history between them that told him 30 mins was a lie

 

[Rubato]

If he always call her “doll” she probably been low key tryna break things off for a while

 

[5th Letter]

I guess I’d wait but I’d make a mental note

 

[Rubato]

I guess I’d wait but I’d make a mental note

Yea if this is the first time, definitely

That’s why I assumed she has a habit of doing this

 

[5th Letter]

Yea if this is the first time, definitely

That’s why I assumed she has a habit of doing this

This looks like a first meeting.

 

[Rubato]

This looks like a first meeting.

If so he is coming into it with a much different level of intensity than she is, probably best for them to go separate ways

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

30 mins is enough time for you to get a few drinks in ur system

plus she can’t control traffic chill nigga

 

[Dwayne]

30 minutes ain’t a bad wait.

But

Mental note is taken

 

[Rubato]

30 mins is enough time for you to get a few drinks in ur system

plus she can’t control traffic chill nigga

She ain’t even leave the crib till she found out he was there lol but agreed on the first point

 

[B_A]

Dip, also aint waiting 30 damn min. 15 max

 

[Dwayne]

She ain’t even leave the crib till she found out he was there lol but agreed on the first point

Huh?

 

[Rubato]

Huh?

He said I’m here, she said ok I’m on the way, eta 30 mins. Made it sound like she didn’t leave the house until she got the text.

 

[loud-ninja]

For a first date, I dont mind waiting 30 mins. Our previous conversations made me interested in her so I will make an exception. I dont like my time wasted either. You will have a red flag on you though. Besides, I made time to come out for a few hours. So it is not the worst thing. Never know, the date could still be great. I make it a point to leave my house early in first impressions. I usually get to a spot like 20mins before. I may not go in but gives me time in case I run into traffic.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

In the words of Avon Barksdale, “ how you never gonna be late in life “

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Imo, it really comes down to how much the person values your time. A date I once had, I texted her saying I hit traffice can we push date time back 30m and she was understand. How much you value each other's time and it can always be adjusted

 

[VIBE]

I’m a stupid patient person… sometimes it’s a bad thing… but I’d wait it out… max would be 1 hour unless she was in consistent communication about her travels… “traffic, almost there, get an appetizer, new location” etc… but if she’s just late with no communication I’d bounce

 

[mryounggun]

I'd wait it out. I'm at a restaurant...with alcohol...and appetizers...and my phone. Thirty minutes is doable.

But I hate chronic tardiness. If this is a consistent thing, at a certain point, I'm gonna have to bow out and move on.

 

[Blue_London]

I'd wait it out. I'm at a restaurant...with alcohol...and appetizers...and my phone. Thirty minutes is doable.

But I hate chronic tardiness. If this is a consistent thing, at a certain point, I'm gonna have to bow out and move on.

This!

My friend is always late so I just organise stuff in locations where I can look around shops etc.

Or I give her an earlier time than scheduled.

 

[silverfoxx]

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I would stay. I don't mind being patient for someone or something I have alot of interest in