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Woman Gets Hit With A Brick After Not Giving Guy Her Number: Update, turns herself in to police after story was found to be not true

The Lonious Monk said:
It wasn't reasonable or ok for that dude to hit that chick with the brick. Nothing about the situation that has come out changes that fact.

The revelations have once shot holes in another one of these claims that black men are just out there savaging women for no other reason than being told no. It's not cool that people keep pushing that false rhetoric, and it's not a common occurrence no matter how much the usual suspects in here want to claim it is.

At the end of the day, the dude that hit the chick needs to be thrown under the jail, and black women need stop being so quick to accept every perceived point of evidence that black men are the devil.
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I agree with the majority of this post.

only thing I wouldnt cosign completely is that its not a common occurrence. At the risk of being semantics man how are we really defining what common is? The shit happens obviously. More often than it should. I just cant say it aint common just cuz it aint reported like it should be
 
Inori said:
I agree with the majority of this post.

only thing I wouldnt cosign completely is that its not a common occurrence. At the risk of being semantics man how are we really defining what common is? The shit happens obviously. More often than it should. I just cant say it aint common just cuz it aint reported like it should be
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By repeating the "it's doesn't happen that often" line, despite women telling otherwise, it allows people to keep ignoring these instances as one offs.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
It wasn't reasonable or ok for that dude to hit that chick with the brick. Nothing about the situation that has come out changes that fact.

The revelations have once shot holes in another one of these claims that black men are just out there savaging women for no other reason than being told no. It's not cool that people keep pushing that false rhetoric, and it's not a common occurrence no matter how much the usual suspects in here want to claim it is.

At the end of the day, the dude that hit the chick needs to be thrown under the jail, and black women need stop being so quick to accept every perceived point of evidence that black men are the devil.
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The bold is hilarious given some of the comments that broadly paint folks with wide brushes on this board. It just only seems to strike a nerve on certain topics and is fine to do on others.
 
Dwayne said:
let a white person say blacks folks just steal and kill each other and watch all of y’all come to black folks defense and point out the lie


But somehow this is different








SHIT AINT COMMON NO MATTER HOW MUCH YALL WANT TO DEMONIZE BLACK MEN
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You on this board weekly with your "Hip hop is nothing but violence culture" and demonizing Black men and women with that take among other nutty shit you've said. You can't talk about anybody making a broad generalization at all.
 
konceptjones said:
and not one person, including dude in the video, tried to validate it either. It's been pretty unanimous that the nigga with the brick was completely in the wrong.
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You don't see how insesant questions of "well what did she possibly do to make him hit her", digging through her shit to find a gotcha moment, and niggas proudly saying how they would just stand and watch, will lead folks to think there's an attempt at justifying it or giving it a pass? If it was truly unanimous then none of that shit matters. Dude is wrong and that's it.
 
BlackRain said:
You on this board weekly with your "Hip hop is nothing but violence culture" and demonizing Black men and women with that take among other nutty shit you've said. You can't talk about anybody making a broad generalization at all.
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Violent music is very much s bad thing.

You can’t argue against it so what’s next.


Also, I call out rap music not black folks. It’s A CLEAR DIFFERENCE.
 
@konceptjones bruh.

It’s an attack on black men as a whole with women saying black men are cowards and black men beat black women and we have dudes in here saying YUP

Coon shit
 
Dwayne said:
Violent music is very much s bad thing.

You can’t argue against it so what’s next.


Also, I call out rap music not black folks. It’s A CLEAR DIFFERENCE.
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"I call out the music made by 98% Black folks as violent but I'm not calling Black people violent." Makes sense
 
BlackRain said:
You don't see how insesant questions of "well what did she possibly do to make him hit her", digging through her shit to find a gotcha moment, and niggas proudly saying how they would just stand and watch, will lead folks to think there's an attempt at justifying it or giving it a pass? If it was truly unanimous then none of that shit matters. Dude is wrong and that's it.
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The only "gotcha moment" that could have possibly justified her getting hit with a brick would be her pointing a weapon at dude for trying to holler.

There's not attempt to justify it happening. Even the eyewitness cat said as much, EVERYONE HAS; there's no reason to hit her like that.

Having said that, instead of daring the nigga with a brick to hit you, maybe it's best to just walk away. If I dare a nigga holding a brick to hit me with it, and he does, why should I be surprised??? This is where common sense and situational awareness comes into play and it appears she has absolutely none.

From the sounds of it, she had every opportunity to walk away but willfully chose to engage this nigga. Had she simply kept it moving, I seriously doubt she would have been hit. In fact, the eyewitness said the dude didn't even pick up the brick until she had repeatedly insulted and denigrated him.

There are times where people 100% contribute to their becoming a victim. This appears to be one of them. Again, it's not a justification, it's an observation.
 
Inori said:
I agree with the majority of this post.

only thing I wouldnt cosign completely is that its not a common occurrence. At the risk of being semantics man how are we really defining what common is? The shit happens obviously. More often than it should. I just cant say it aint common just cuz it aint reported like it should be
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Perception isn't reality. Think about all the things that black men have been accused of and how many of them have been proven wrong as soon as actual data was available. At what point do we stop acting like anecdotal evidence from people who have experienced legitimate trauma is enough evidence to indict a whole group of people?

I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, and honestly it's one of those things that one incident is too much. I just think it's irresponsible to take these narratives and run with them unchecked, especially when we know that more often than not, they turn out to be untrue when light is shined on them.

BlackRain said:
The bold is hilarious given some of the comments that broadly paint folks with wide brushes on this board. It just only seems to strike a nerve on certain topics and is fine to do on others.
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I can't speak for everyone else, but I've always that characterizing a whole group based on extreme examples is stupid under almost all circumstances. We all make that mistake from time to time. I'm not innocent in that. It's some human shit honestly, but that doesn't make it right whether you're talking about black men, black women, or anyone else.

Painting black men as dangerous monsters that can't be told no without flying into a violent rage is not good for anyone. I don't see why that's so hard to understand.
 
BlackRain said:
"I call out the music made by 98% Black folks as violent but I'm not calling Black people violent." Makes sense
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actually, it does.

As we all know, the vast majority of the people that make that shit ain't the way they portray themselves in their music until this recent wave of drill rappers emerged. Most of the muhfuckas ain't bussin shots, they ain't in the trap, they don't have the money, cars, or jewels they claim, all of that shit is fiction. So, we can call out the music these people make without it being about calling Black folks violent because the majority of the shit is all fairy tales.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
Perception isn't reality. Think about all the things that black men have been accused of and how many of them have been proven wrong as soon as actual data was available. At what point do we stop acting like anecdotal evidence from people who have experienced legitimate trauma is enough evidence to indict a whole group of people?

I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, and honestly it's one of those things that one incident is too much. I just think it's irresponsible to take these narratives and run with them unchecked, especially when we know that more often than not, they turn out to be untrue when light is shined on them.



I can't speak for everyone else, but I've always that characterizing a whole group based on extreme examples is stupid under almost all circumstances. We all make that mistake from time to time. I'm not innocent in that. It's some human shit honestly, but that doesn't make it right whether you're talking about black men, black women, or anyone else.

Painting black men as dangerous monsters that can't be told no without flying into a violent rage is not good for anyone. I don't see why that's so hard to understand.
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You have never and will never see me agreeing with the concept or idea that Black men are inherently dangerous or any more dangerous. In fact you can see me arguing against that many times. What I do acknowledge though is that because the vast majority of Black men and women deal with only Black men and women then the vast majority of each others good and bad experiences with the opposite sex and what shapes their view of them will be through each other.

So when Black women start talking about their negative experiences with Black men I stopped personalizing it and realized they're talking about when they talk about their experiences with men the default will be Black men both good and bad. And regardless of how much I personally don't identify with alot of the bad shit they experience I won't dismiss their actual lived experiences by throwing out "well actually" stats that takes the humanity out of the discussion. And unfortunately there's far too many women who have similar stories about some foul shit happening to them that I can't dismiss as "well it ain't everybody so why even discuss it?". Same way when Race would go on her shit about Black men I'd counter her for the bullshit generalizations, I counter Black men too. Just so happens majority of this site is Black men so...
 
konceptjones said:
actually, it does.

As we all know, the vast majority of the people that make that shit ain't the way they portray themselves in their music until this recent wave of drill rappers emerged. Most of the muhfuckas ain't bussin shots, they ain't in the trap, they don't have the money, cars, or jewels they claim, all of that shit is fiction. So, we can call out the music these people make without it being about calling Black folks violent because the majority of the shit is all fairy tales.
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If taking the angle that his oft repeated sentiment takes...then Black men are the "face of violence" thanks to rap music. And given how often the topic of making Black men the face of negative things comes up it would possibly lead to the idea that by thinking so negatively of rap music then one would also think negatively of the Black men and women who participate in it.
 
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