Why is Ciara and Russell Wilson’s relationship so polarizing?

[Dwayne]

Most of us have explained, but here ya go homie. Puts it all in perspective.



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Other ppl thoughts and nothing factual

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[DOS_patos]

She does get that as well...especially hearing her talk about some of the shit she's been through Wade is an upgrade...and i agree with what you're saying that niggas like Russ should be the standard instead of the upgrade...but this also boils down to the people you surround yourself with.

I grew up around chicks who wanted the Future type niggas too so i know they out there...but even still I knew way more chicks that wanted the Russ type nigga who wasn't running around, at least publicly, with a bunch of different women and always in some drama. So like I would often say on the IC when i see niggas constantly complaining about women like this i wonder just who the fuck yall are around same as I do women who talk that "men are trash" shit. You often say I try to pretend as if I'm above certain shit or trying to seem perfect but really its me simply going out of my way to avoid alot of the drama i see people easiy fall into. I don't complain about ain't shit women because i stopped having them around me. When that stopped and I made it a point to only keep certain women around then alot of bullshit stopped to. Its almost like there was a correlation or something....

Alot of your perception of the opposite sex is built on the types you encounter most and when you constantly encountering trash then that will start to affect how you view them.

maybe i havent seen it but i dont see where Gabi is put up there for women to cheer for.

i dont hear the same type acknowledgement liek this chick gets even tho Gabi will be on shit talking about how she licks wades ass and helps raises his kids.

my thing is....regardless of how i see russell...i just think this is one of those times single chicks with no kids or women who didnt sleep around should feel some type of way.

hes a dude i would like to have a black woman who did all the right things. but i cant pick his mate.

but i said that enough.

 

[Black Caesar]

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Other ppl thoughts and nothing factual

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LOL Dogs we're shooting the shit. I already gave my take on it and there are other takes. Just enjoy the perspectives in the thread rather you agree or not homie.

 

[BlackRain]

maybe i havent seen it but i dont see where Gabi is put up there for women to cheer for.

i dont hear the same type acknowledgement liek this chick gets even tho Gabi will be on shit talking about how she licks wades ass and helps raises his kids.

my thing is....regardless of how i see russell...i just think this is one of those times single chicks with no kids or women who didnt sleep around should feel some type of way.

hes a dude i would like to have a black woman who did all the right things. but i cant pick his mate.

but i said that enough.

Gabrielle Union also doesnt project this pseudo Christian image which is where a large part of the support you see for Ciara come from..and who in the black community attends church the most? Black women. So they see Ciara get the good christian man in Russ and it's their version of a Disney princess story in real life

 

[BlackRain]

But we're not talking about when she first came out. She had her kid with Future (oh the irony in that name) at around 29. As I said earlier, all the dumb shit should have been outta her system by then

People make dumb decisions well into their 30s and 40s. Ain't no magical age for maturity. That shit comes with life experience

 

[DOS_patos]

Gabrielle Union also doesnt project this pseudo Christian image which is where a large part of the support you see for Ciara come from..and who in the black community attends church the most? Black women. So they see Ciara get the good christian man in Russ and it's their version of a Disney princess story in real life

and you dont see that as toxic? toxic to our women?
the whole thing screams no accountability to me.

that nice nigga will be thirsty now and he will be thirsty later.....
as if a nice dude cant offer a woman a fun life while they are young.
and trust me i say the same about nba players messing with the same chick, each others wives and shit.

like...you have millions and can find a good chick in the middle of an african desert, but they choose the ran thru chicks.

maybe im missing something.

and christian image?

i seen her videos......but i guess thats only entertainment.
i thought that was supposed to be against the image and is worldly.

again...maybe im missing something

 

[Black Caesar]

Nah let these carlton banks niggas eat b

Niggas ain't forgot you stole everyone on the site's money. Don't let me catch you in the dark. LOL

 

[Black Caesar]

Those people are in the industry so you just made the point....people are gonna date who they're around.

Niggas acting like they want ciara to date the shift manager at buffalo wild wings.

LMAO This was funny.

 

[SeaSnake]

Because Russell is a L7, and Ciara done messed with 50 Cent and even Bow Wow. After Future dogged her out and she "settled" for the nice guy after dropping a child. Russel got in there had to wait until they were married before he could shoot the club up, got her pregnant and it was a wrap. Russel doesn't seem hip to the game.

With that said, he seems happy. That's why people keep looking at it. They want him to fail.

Russel decided to wait tho. And Bow aint street he mad corny. 50 cent bow wow and russ. Dont seem that bad

 

[SeaSnake]

Russell a grown ass man who been married before.

He's an NFL qb... Dude been in the industry and running game long to know exactly what he getting into.

He pulled an ace...

Before I married Ginger, I heard all the stories, but I didn't give a fuck. 'I'm Sam Ace Rothstein', I said. I can change her."

Maybe he get off on his girl being extra freaky... Nigga could be a cuck for all y'all know....

All we know is that nigga love her and he happy, and I'm sure he's well aware of who she been with....

Let him do him....

Calling that man a square.... He prolly keep it g more than all y'all.... Clearly none of y'all have the guts to wife up a chick with a celebrity past....

Niggas acting like they wouldnt seed Ciara up and marry her. Like cmon

 

[Black Caesar]

Russel decided to wait tho. And Bow aint street he mad corny. 50 cent bow wow and russ. Dont seem that bad

LOL I'm just enjoying the responses. If Russell decided to that's on him. She played the game right. Not mad at her.

I saw that Bow Wow shot. LOL

 

[SeaSnake]

LOL I'm just enjoying the responses. If Russell decided to that's on him. She played the game right. Not mad at her.

I saw that Bow Wow shot. LOL

Bow wow dod become the biggest conrball badly tho

 

[Golden]

only feeble minded people peddle the false ass nice guy bad boy dichotomy.

y'all are talking about these people like you know their characters. to answer the OP, the relationship is polarizing because a certain segment of society are looking for case studies to rant about on social media. I don't hear these convos in person.

 

[konceptjones]

LOL I'm just enjoying the responses. If Russell decided to that's on him. She played the game right. Not mad at her.

I saw that Bow Wow shot. LOL

 

[shutupGabi]

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Bruh she made the nigga wait until they were married to smash when she already dropped the baby 6 MONTHS before meeting Rus. LOL She has the game not him.

Also Ginger helped to bring the whole empire down.

What if I told you....russell was the one that wanted to wait.

 

[Dwayne]

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What if I told you....russell was the one that wanted to wait.

That’s what I thought

 

[IP360]

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What if I told you....russell was the one that wanted to wait.

I think we done established this about 4 times already. Lol!

I'm still trying to understand how Russell played himself.

 

[BlackRain]

The videos were one video. This was posted in the IC two years ago. I do think you have a point, but what the man is saying is not wrong. Russell was the sucker in the situation. Period.

Listen to the video, because I know you didn't lol.

Other than her having a kid and 1 bad ex boyfriend, nobody has yet to actually give a reason why he's a sucker other than "She used to date a bad boy and now she ended up with a dude who does her right. How dare she want better for herself"

 

[Dwayne]

Other than her having a kid and 1 bad ex boyfriend, nobody has yet to actually give a reason why he's a sucker other than "She used to date a bad boy and now she ended up with a dude who does her right. How dare she want better for herself"

"Mind bottling"

 

[BlackRain]

and you dont see that as toxic? toxic to our women?
the whole thing screams no accountability to me.

that nice nigga will be thirsty now and he will be thirsty later.....
as if a nice dude cant offer a woman a fun life while they are young.
and trust me i say the same about nba players messing with the same chick, each others wives and shit.

like...you have millions and can find a good chick in the middle of an african desert, but they choose the ran thru chicks.

maybe im missing something.

and christian image?

i seen her videos......but i guess thats only entertainment.
i thought that was supposed to be against the image and is worldly.

again...maybe im missing something

My nigga...she has a kid with Future. Whether she likes it or not she is permanently attached to him in a way forever. That's accountability for your ass. A permanent reminder of a bad relationship in the form of a human being you have to raise every day? And yes she's always had the good girl christian image. When she first came out in 2003 I remember her doing interviews talking about he she planned to stay a virgin, being the good southern lil military brat who grew up in Atlanta but could twerk because "that's how southern girls dance"..she's always toed that line between the good girl and being overtly sexual.