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When is the last time you told a woman to "calm down"?

my other go to is, in a calm ass voice to her "why are you raising your voice? I haven't raised my voice"

she get so tight

i think females feel some type of way if you arent matching their intensity in arguments

I be thinking "damn, did i forget to save my spot on the game last night?"
 
my other go to is, in a calm ass voice to her "why are you raising your voice? I haven't raised my voice"

she get so tight

i think females feel some type of way if you arent matching their intensity in arguments

I be thinking "damn, did i forget to save my spot on the game last night?"
Next time laugh a lil bit, smile when you say it and tell us about the results later.
 
my other go to is, in a calm ass voice to her "why are you raising your voice? I haven't raised my voice"

she get so tight

i think females feel some type of way if you arent matching their intensity in arguments

I be thinking "damn, did i forget to save my spot on the game last night?"

I've had multiple women tell me that they don't like how I 'never react' like wtf. Couple of these clowns told me that sometimes they tell some shockin' lie to see how I'd react and then they get mad when I don't.

Then in an argument I get hit with the "obviously you just don't care" bar
 
I've had multiple women tell me that they don't like how I 'never react' like wtf. Couple of these clowns told me that sometimes they tell some shockin' lie to see how I'd react and then they get mad when I don't.

Then in an argument I get hit with the "obviously you just don't care" bar
im so emotionally detached at this point in my life

i honestly dont know if it is something i'll ever regain
 
I've had multiple women tell me that they don't like how I 'never react' like wtf. Couple of these clowns told me that sometimes they tell some shockin' lie to see how I'd react and then they get mad when I don't.

Then in an argument I get hit with the "obviously you just don't care" bar


I just dont feel the need to raise my voice or get worked up...

Its a waste of time, energy and it really offers no solution to whatever problem we may be having as a couple

So yeah im the “Ill come back when you ready to have a real discussion about this”

I am gonna try that “Breathe and think” tho
 
Last night. It's something about the phrase Calm Down that makes Women rage more. So I say Breathe and Think.
oh.....im stealing this shit.....she'll be home shortly and we gonna finish our morning rumble....

wish me luck.
 
yesterday

and no, it never works

in fact im to the point where after I say calm down or relax, I go ahead and put my phone face down and walk away

why does it seem like your phone buzzes hard as shit when you in trouble? i swear that shit'll rumble off the desk

but let it be a good text you wont hear it lol
 
now you trying to get me killed
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Y'all nice as shit....

My ignant ass be like

:umad3:
 
Why do y'all think it's y'all job to tell a woman to control her emotions?

There's no empathy in 'calm down' it sounds like an order you give a dog.

If you don't like what I'm saying then walk away from the argument/discussion. But expressing emotion is one of the best parts of the human experience and I will not be deprived or subdued upon command.
 
now that i think about it....i do fuck with her alot.
like....im always fucking with her when she mad.
Why do y'all think it's y'all job to tell a woman to control her emotions?

There's no empathy in 'calm down' it sounds like an order you give a dog.

If you don't like what I'm saying then walk away from the argument/discussion. But expressing emotion is one of the best parts of the human experience and I will not be deprived or subdued upon command.
Breathe......and think baby.
 
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