Being cautious of fraudulent people who pretend to compliment you while plotting on you is not a short coming imo
And you suggest that they are...
You introduced the word insecurity.
You are introducing the concept of fear.
I'm just pointing out niggaz pretend to be shit they ain't every day.
The worst people in the world can be nice as shit when you meet them
If you're basing your moves and how you interact with people off of "what if" this or what if that, it's fear.
"What if when he called me king he really means to hurt me" - if that's running through your head that's fear.