Golden
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what about older women? most black men have their mamas.true.
but it hardly works out this way.
I was just talking about this with my girlfriend.
Black men dont have alot of older male mentors that they can reach out to.
like lets say there dad is gone (or never around) who can they reach out to for guidance outside of their male counterparts?
its very hard to find.
our communities have changed drastically.
some men dont have older men they can confide in or look up to
why would they look to young women whom they aren't related to as relationship guides? they know what they're doing.
unless it's the Young MA-like lesbian stud in their crew, they're using their relationship problems to get closer to a chick.
it's game, it isn't forming organically.