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Zagreus said:
I can gladly say I went to therapy in my youth, and it fixed exactly what I came there for.

Very beneficial. Would recommend to anybody.

Not even just for a specific issue. If you feel u need some one to talk to that's removed from your perspective for an outside opinion in general I'd recommend.
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Did they give you a new perspective on something or was it a perspective that you accepted better because of whom it was coming from?
 
Zagreus said:
I can gladly say I went to therapy in my youth, and it fixed exactly what I came there for.

Very beneficial. Would recommend to anybody.

Not even just for a specific issue. If you feel u need some one to talk to that's removed from your perspective for an outside opinion in general I'd recommend.
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I love this.
 
Now a days people too caught up in their own lives. I don't keep things bottled up, I just find different ways to get them off my chest. My best friend thinks I write poetry to her, but in reality I be writing confessions. Keeping shit bottled in isn't good, but you gotta be careful what you reveal to certain people.
 
Judge Dread said:
I am not sure if that is a good thing either. I used to be that way and carried a lot of weight that I didn't need to.
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I don't carry everything I just get over it and move on. I definitely don't take anything out on anyone though.
 
i don't bottle shit up... i speak my mind loosely as shit.....

therapeutic as fuck
 
I don't think it's a big deal if a women knowa how you never know if something happens and no one is around at that moment. If you're with a dude in the car than yes he should handle that.
 
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Judge Dread said:
Did they give you a new perspective on something or was it a perspective that you accepted better because of whom it was coming from?
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Prob a mixture of both. But basically if I were to sum up my therapy experience, it was pretty much a guided mental workshop in the sense that I wasn't told really to what to think...

I was guided to thinking about my situation and perspective in a different light that was more conducive to who I wanted to become....

I was coaxed thru my own mental processes at my own pace, to come to realize that my thought patterns could be oriented to a more healthy way that improved my life, period.

Would it have been as effective coming from someone I know? Probably. Simply because I'm introspective in general and wouldve dissected it by myself.

But I didn't have that, hence the therapy fulfilled the need.
 
Zagreus said:
Prob a mixture of both. But basically if I were to sum up my therapy experience, it was pretty much a guided mental workshop in the sense that I wasn't told really to what to think...

I was guided to thinking about my situation and perspective in a different light that was more conducive to who I wanted to become....

I was coaxed thru my own mental processes at my own pace, to come to realize that my thought patterns could be oriented to a more healthy way that improved my life, period.

Would it have been as effective coming from someone I know? Probably. Simply because I'm introspective in general and wouldve dissected it by myself.

But I didn't have that, hence the therapy fulfilled the need.
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Do you think you are better equipped to deal with things because now you have the tools to self diagnose or deal for lack of a better term.
 
Ironman said:
It's never too late to learn she got this
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Well as we know husbands shouldn't teach their wives to drive. I am a patient , humble man but nope not for me. Also, I want her to drive and I encourage her to but I know I will have to buy her a separate car. Tho I am always working on not being materealistic my car is the last surviving thing from my materialistic days and I would be vexed at her first accident.
 
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