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mr. not black and white
i think people can learn from past experiences and become better people, but i acknowledge that there is the possibility they may not.
if a person has a history of living check to check due to ignorance of how money works...thats one thing, but if there situation is due to just poor decision after poor decision and they dont want to change, e.g. a chick who blows rent money to go on a girls trip...then thats another story
in one instance, the chick just isnt knowledgeable, which, if you have the patience and she is willing, you can correct this or assist...but if she bent on trying to impress people she dont even like, then im afraid, she might be a lost cause