The Birth Control Thread….we need to have a SERIOUS conversation about it:

[Tayboo]

Get vasectomies niggas. 30 min procedure and lifetime supply of creampies with no worries

I wouldn't say that. Although the probability is low you can still get a woman pregnant after a vasectomy. You gotta check in and make sure you don't have any swimmers sneaking through...

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Adults without kids is weird to me. Adults that don't want kids are weird to me

No, I don't wanna explain why I think they weird, just know I'm judging them fwiw

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Being a good parent is not for the weak, but it's def rewarding.

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

I wouldn't say that. Although the probability is low you can still get a woman pregnant after a vasectomy. You gotta check in and make sure you don't have any swimmers sneaking through...

True but if you follow the steps there’s a less than 1% chance. I’ll take those odds.

 

[Mister B. M. Ed.]

This a undercover passport bro thread

How? Where did that even come from? Wouldn’t that actually make things even MORE complicated, having children internationally?

And to @Loquacious , if ALL methods of birth control to you are bad, you plan on having 4-6 kids in your 20s and 30s? It’s a fair question.

 

[Mister B. M. Ed.]

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Is that a Chicago thing?

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Is that a Chicago thing?

Lol naw. Before having kids that post would probably look crazy to me. But I get it.

 

[AP3.0]

Having kids isn't the issue

Being irresponsible is

I'm all for a woman's choice but I'm also for if a man tells you straight up he don't want any kids and you decide to keep the baby after finding out you're pregnant, then he should be able to sign away all rights to the child and you can't come after him for any type of support

 

[Chi-Town B]

Having kids isn't the issue

Being irresponsible is

I'm all for a woman's choice but I'm also for if a man tells you straight up he don't want any kids and you decide to keep the baby after finding out you're pregnant, then he should be able to sign away all rights to the child and you can't come after him for any type of support

Nah, I'm shocked at you saying something like this. If a man don't want kids then he shouldn't impregnate a woman and if he does stand up and take responsibility for his actions.

 

[AP3.0]

Nah, I'm shocked at you saying something like this. If a man don't want kids then he shouldn't impregnate a woman and if he does stand up and take responsibility for his actions.

Ehhh

I agree

But

Since both of them not gonna be responsible, and someone in the dynamic still decides they want a child, you can't force the other person to do it, especially if they were upfront about not wanting other kids

This is a very nuanced discussion and extremely multi layered. All I'm saying is the woman imo is probably better off just letting that nigga go on his way. He isn't going to be anything positive to that child

 

[ImaInfluenza]

Gotta convince her to get her tubes tied

 

[AP3.0]

Gotta convince her to get her tubes tied

Good luck if she has no kids

 

[ImaInfluenza]

Good luck if she has no kids

if she 40, maybe even like 37 plus, you can convince her to do it…for you



lesser men have made women do more.

 

[AP3.0]

if she 40, maybe even like 37 plus, you can convince her to do it…for you



lesser men have made women do more.

Nah man lol

Just strap up at this point

 

[Tayboo]

Having kids isn't the issue

Being irresponsible is

I'm all for a woman's choice but I'm also for if a man tells you straight up he don't want any kids and you decide to keep the baby after finding out you're pregnant, then he should be able to sign away all rights to the child and you can't come after him for any type of support

Don't agree with this. If you know in fact that you do not want a kid for whatever reason you as grown ass man need to take the necessary measures to prevent that from happening. I don't understand how knowing the fact that once your seed is out of you, you no longer have control of the outcome doesn't make more men guard their seed with their life.

 

[AP3.0]

Don't agree with this. If you know in fact that you do not want a kid for whatever reason you as grown ass man need to take the necessary measures to prevent that from happening. I don't understand how knowing that fact that once your seed is out of you, you no longer have control of the outcome doesn't make more men guard their seed with their life.

I don't disagree per se

But again, this is a very nuanced conversation imo.

If both people who claim they don't want children engage in acts that bring a child, but one decides to keep it, that isn't right imo.

I'm not trying to make this a gender war at all ftr. But I already know if there was a situation where the guy wanted to keep it and the girl didn't, she's more than likely not going to consult with him to get his feelings about it. More than likely, for a myriad of reasons, she's probably going to abort it. I would apply the same logic if she decided to have the baby but didn't want to actually be a mom. Isn't this what adoption basically is?

 

[BlackRain]

If you as a man do not want kids then either get a vasectomy or strap up 100% of the time. That's the only way you can take 99.9% control of what happens after you nut. Any other way then you're subjecting yourself to the whims of the woman if she does end up pregnant.

 

[mryounggun]

Ehhh

I agree

But

Since both of them not gonna be responsible, and someone in the dynamic still decides they want a child, you can't force the other person to do it, especially if they were upfront about not wanting other kids

This is a very nuanced discussion and extremely multi layered. All I'm saying is the woman imo is probably better off just letting that nigga go on his way. He isn't going to be anything positive to that child

This wildly presumptuous.

 

[AP3.0]

This wildly presumptuous.

Perhaps

I'm not speaking from a place of expertise also

I'm just sharing some random thoughts. I'm not trying to be on a right or wrong side per se

Thank you for holding me accountable

You too @Tayboo

 

[Tayboo]

I don't disagree per se

But again, this is a very nuanced conversation imo.

If both people who claim they don't want children engage in acts that bring a child, but one decides to keep it, that isn't right imo.

I'm not trying to make this a gender war at all ftr. But I already know if there was a situation where the guy wanted to keep it and the girl didn't, she's more than likely not going to consult with him to get his feelings about it. More than likely, for a myriad of reasons, she's probably going to abort it. I would apply the same logic if she decided to have the baby but didn't want to actually be a mom. Isn't this what adoption basically is?

This is one of those subjects that just won't be made balanced and fair. Men don't risk their lives to carry a baby to term and give birth, so women have more options. And let's be real, plenty of men (and women) opt out of raising their kids already.