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Stop Being A Wife Without The Ring.

Kandy said:
Would you let a girl you’re getting into a relationship with know that she’s just fun for the moment but not wifey material?
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i have said it when i was younger....but i had to realize i was wasting my time aswell...not just hers.

i have told many chicks i dated they wasnt wifey material....an they wasnt.



cooking and fucking me dont make a chick wifey material
 
BNE said:
I've noticed a correlation between people's intelligence and belief in prenups. Guess which direction the line on the graph goes.
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If I’m making enough to have something to lose in a divorce, and I’m betting that I need to protect myself against someone I choose to marry.

Either I don’t know what marriage is or means, or I shouldn’t get married. Cause it’s obvious at the point, I’m not getting married for me. I’m getting married for them, so at what point do you become resentful for making that big a move for them. Or at what point does that not be as meaningful to them.

And at what point does plans made ahead of time when we separate become what we are doing now that we are separated

If you love someone enough to ask for their hand in marriage, you need to be willing to hold that L or don’t hold their hand at the alter
 
Germs said:
If I’m making enough to have something to lose in a divorce, and I’m betting that I need to protect myself against someone I choose to marry.

Either I don’t know what marriage is or means, or I shouldn’t get married. Cause it’s obvious at the point, I’m not getting married for me. I’m getting married for them, so at what point do you become resentful for making that big a move for them. Or at what point does that not be as meaningful to them.

And at what point does plans made ahead of time when we separate become what we are doing now that we are separated

If you love someone enough to ask for their hand in marriage, you need to be willing to hold that L or don’t hold their hand at the alter
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i dont told you about thinking.

i hear what you are trying to say....but you would gamble with decades of hard work?
a simple protection is just that.

that doesnt mean you two cant share it.

but things happen.

and the fact that you would have so much that its even a thought...you have to wonder if its you they truly love.

some questions need to be asked.

i bet you cant find a rich woman who would marry a man with alot less then her without a prenup.

it dont work both ways.
 
DOS_patos said:
i have said it when i was younger....but i had to realize i was wasting my time aswell...not just hers.

i have told many chicks i dated they wasnt wifey material....an they wasnt.



cooking and fucking me dont make a chick wifey material
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Lol u told chicks straight up they aint shit? How they take it?
 
I haven't watched the video yet because I'm out.
I feel this way though...
I could've been married right now, I told him no. I was planning on leaving of course but yeah...
I can not play house with a dude again, I'm not cooking and cleaning after no one but myself and my daughter. I prefer him get his ass up and go home the next day. Wash your own clothes, I'll cook for him..not scratch that... I'LL COOK because I have to cook anyway but man listen...let me hush.

I will say that if it works for one couple, they should continue to do what works for them. Everyone isn't into marriage or the whole idea of marriage, some people are all for it and this is why compatibility is important.
 
Don't let a past nigga ruin a potential good future nigga.

Playing house is sometimes needed as a litmus test.

You don't truly know someone unless you lived with them.
 
Meeks said:
I haven't watched the video yet because I'm out.
I feel this way though...
I could've been married right now, I told him no. I was planning on leaving of course but yeah...
I can not play house with a dude again, I'm not cooking and cleaning after no one but myself and my daughter. I prefer him get his ass up and go home the next day. Wash your own clothes, I'll cook for him..not scratch that... I'LL COOK because I have to cook anyway but man listen...let me hush.

I will say that if it works for one couple, they should continue to do what works for them. Everyone isn't into marriage or the whole idea of marriage, some people are all for it and this is why compatibility is important.
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Goldie said:
Damn, yall can't even cook and clean for a nigga no more?
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A grown man can cook and clean for himself. If he comes over and i'm expecting him, he'll eat. He needs to pick his own stuff up, he's grown not some child.

I won't have to worry about it because I'm not playing house with another man
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Meeks said:
A grown man can cook and clean for himself. If he comes over and i'm expecting him, he'll eat. He needs to pick his own stuff up, he's grown not some child.

I won't have to worry about it because I'm not playing house with another man
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Come over? I was assuming we're talking about a situation where yall lived together
 
Goldie said:
Come over? I was assuming we're talking about a situation where yall lived together
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Live with who? HA, not I.
I'm not playing house with no man again, I said that like 50 times. I've learned that living together is a big deal, one of which I would not do again.
 
I agree with Meek The Freek. I don't mind cooking for a dude, if I am expecting him to come over. I'll even wash his clothes if he spending the night for the weekend.
HOWEVER! I'm NOT playing house anymore either. A grown mans hands can do what my hands can do as far as cleaning and cooking.

I dont even like cooking to begin with!
 
Meeks said:
Live with who? HA, not I.
I'm not playing house with no man again, I said that like 50 times. I've learned that living together is a big deal, one of which I would not do again.
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lol damn, so you don't ever wanna live with another man again in life?
 
I aint watch the vid cuz I'm layin in the bed next to my wife

But

I think the statement is too simplified. I don't think the ring should be brought up, ppl focus too much on that. It should be more of not doing certain things for a man whos not vested in you. Aint too many women doing wifey things nowadays anyway.
 
DOS_patos said:
i dont told you about thinking.

i hear what you are trying to say....but you would gamble with decades of hard work?
a simple protection is just that.

that doesnt mean you two cant share it.

but things happen.

and the fact that you would have so much that its even a thought...you have to wonder if its you they truly love.

some questions need to be asked.

i bet you cant find a rich woman who would marry a man with alot less then her without a prenup.

it dont work both ways.
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U cant put a price on tru love
 
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