Bruh, we don't have to agree. Agreement ain't the point, but you and the other dude play the same bullshit games. You act like I'm over here banging on my keys angrily. I honestly don't care that much about this. You love to call me out on arguing just to argue, so you have to know that I'm not emotionally invested in any of this shit. I'm happily married, so if all the single people out there crash and burn, I'm unaffected. I do have two daughters I'm raising though. And I would like them to be able to date, find love, and get married one day without having to traverse the mine field that the dating game seems to be today. Just stop with the bullshit. If you disagree with me, say that an leave it alone. You and the other dude can't actually make cogent arguments for why I'm wrong, and if you're not going to do that, then don't bother saying anything at all.
I don't care about what you say about your POV, just like if you have an opinion about my POV, you're not just going to drop that opinion because I say so. lol I'm going by what I've observed with my own eyes based on reading your stances on things. I'm not even saying I'm 100% right about my opinion on you because I haven't read every single post you've made or run some kinda analysis to determine the fairness of the points you make. All I can say is that based on what I actually have read, that's the impression I have, and you saying it's wrong isn't going to change that impression. It is what it is.
And I'm not personalizing anything. That's you. You're the one that keeps on trying to dismiss the points being made by claiming that people are just being offended or sensitive. Again, you've had every opportunity to look at the substance of what I said and post counterexamples or poke holes in the logic, but you haven't done that, you've just misrepresented statements and deflected.
I don't think I understand what you're trying to say here. All I want you to do is be fair minded.
You and I have been over this before. I don't mind you defending women from the sexists or misogynisic dudes on this site. My problem is that often when you do, you spout the exact same talking points that a lot of man hating women use. That doesn't make sense to me. Women aren't men, so there are things they are going to get wrong when they criticize men, just because they don't really know or understand what its like to be a man or how men think. When you, a man, say some of those same things, it just strikes me as weird, because I can't understand how a dude would think that way.
Think about it. Imagine some chicks made a topic bashing black fathers in response to single mothers getting dragged on here. If I came in here and started cosigning all that shit or spouting the same shit, all the black fathers on this site would look at me weird. Not because anybody believes black fathers are above criticism but because some of those criticisms are factually incorrect, and every involved black father knows that.