Seriously though, why do so many black men encourage women to get diabetes, hypertension and all the horrible diseases just to look thick?

[mike030270]

 

[Loquacious]

Ok so we’re getting to the real. You’re being defensive. Cos I didn’t attack you but you’re taking it as an attack. I clearly did not say any of the things you are accusing me of saying. It’s not that deep and no one is attacking you for being fat. Let’s all take a deep breath and relax.

I’m not being defensive. You should read my words in a calmer tone. I don’t feel attacked either.

I’m just tryna understand your logic.

 

[PlantainChips]

That’s diff


Nobody is encouraging women to be that size; people are just appreciating their beauty at that size.

Jaysus Christ. It is clearly a tongue in cheek title. I.e. by celebrating these women you actually encourage it. It’s just a joke. Wow. People are getting really defensive in here.

Plus, I know a lot of skinny black women who say black men don’t want them cos they are skinny so

 

[PlantainChips]

I’m not being defensive. You should read my words in a calmer tone. I don’t feel attacked either.

I’m just tryna understand your logic.

Bruh. Let’s just go out separate ways. I’m not trying to argue with anyone. Have a good day.

 

[Loquacious]

I ain’t arguing though.

Man I am not good with the ladies on here. I strike out every time.

 

[Dwitty]

I’m starting to see a pattern.

 

[PlantainChips]

I ain’t arguing though.

Man I am not good with the ladies on here. I strike out every time.

I didn’t say you were arguing. I’m simply not about to enter a back and forth. It’s not important. That’s why I said let’s drop it. It’s. Not. Important.

 

[Loquacious]

Okey dokey.

 

[Rubato]

A slightly overweight black woman looks 50x better than a slightly overweight white woman because they maintain the athletic shape and curves

Weird to shame black men for recognizing that and showing love

 

[PlantainChips]

How did niggas get blamed for this

I know a lot of slim and skinny black women who date black men who try to force them to overeat to gain weight. And they tell me most black men don’t want to date them cos of their petite size.

 

[Rubato]

I know a lot of slim and skinny black women who date black men who try to force them to overeat to gain weight.

Never witnessed this dynamic in my life….

Might be a regional thing where you at

 

[PlantainChips]

A slightly overweight black woman looks 50x better than a slightly overweight white woman because they maintain the athletic shape and curves

Weird to shame black men for recognizing that and showing love

I was just joking. Not shaming. I have the same tone in all my threads. People are getting REAL defensive. I don’t participate in all that gender war nonsense and this is not one.

 

[PlantainChips]

Never witnessed this dynamic in my life….

Might be a regional thing where you at

It’s not cos I’ve lived in many different countries. Just cos you have not experienced it does not mean it’s not true

 

[PhenomTheMac]

We don't.

/thread

 

[PlantainChips]

That’s diff


Nobody is encouraging women to be that size; people are just appreciating their beauty at that size.

Like I said, I know plenty of skinny black women who don’t get chosen cos of their size so… something’s not adding up …

 

[PlantainChips]

We don't.

/thread

not been my experience

/thread

 

[Rubato]

“Why do so many black men”

“Y’all so defensive”

Lmao

 

[PlantainChips]

“Why do so many black men”

“Y’all so defensive”

Lmao

I meant the people in the thread are getting defensive. Not every black man. Again, this is not a gender war thread.

 

[Rubato]

Didn’t you say you were thick in the other thread? Were you coerced?

 

[Eyerone]

I’ll see myself out