I agree. So why do women have a hard time accepting these same hard truths? KS shitted on men fiercely and brought that same energy to the women.
For all the results that being with the wrong men that they see fit can bring.
So you get women that feel like being with a man who doesn’t make enough money, brings too much social pressure. Nothing wrong with women not wanting their spouse to be broke. Yet they’re asking for a specific kind of man. That man? Can have his pick of the litter which is what Kev would say. Go speak to one of these men who weld, do construction, electrical work…..but many women feel like those men aren’t good enough for them since they’re too special to settle. That’s fair.
Yet women don’t like to accept the harsh truths about women. Can I cry foul when a woman says I’m not cute, tall, good enough?? Yes, but so what. Women don’t wanna be called out for their mishaps so when we fail, we gotta take it.….and take it quietly. Women fail and the game gotta be rigged, you’re sexist, colorist, homophobic, cishet, toxic etc.
Which are all, very valid talking points but me wanting a woman who doesn’t want me can’t become her loss because I want to win. If I rather Vanessa Williams, Beyoncé, Rihanna, Keri Hilton……over Kelly Roland, Tems, Viola Davis…..that’s my business but women can again scream from high heavens all the things that make me bad.
I done been in plenty places and see women shit on men badly. We gotta take it. I call a woman ugly and now I gotta get thrown in social prison and apologize until I’m free. The Issue is that many women fought for the reality they want and its still not enough. Which is part of the core of what Kevin spoke about.