Remaining Friends With Your Ex

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Lol you're acting like women aint actual people. Yes, I can be friends with a chick without wanting to fuck lol

Haha! You twisting my words like a mf.

Have you considered journalism or politics?

 

[Goldie]

yes, but you said this

if you don't want to fuck then where is the temptation?

do past feelings and history vanish into thin air and make a friendship with an ex equal to a woman you don't have that baggage with?

extending an olive branch to be friends after a relationship has ended is a red flag to some because the past impacts the present.

what are u talking about? Any good looking chick is a temptation to fuck, doesn't mean I'm going to fuck.

 

[Goldie]

Haha! You twisting my words like a mf.

Have you considered journalism or politics?

The former lol

 

[Golden]

what are u talking about? Any good looking chick is a temptation to fuck, doesn't mean I'm going to fuck.

aight, I'll leave that one alone.

but r u really gonna act like the risk level between exes is equal to that between male/female friends who do not have a history as a couple?

 

[Duwop]

My whole thing is

How important is This friendship?

On a scale of 1-10 where do you rank it as important to your life??

Cuz I can cut off a 5 or under with no hesitation. Even up to an 8 can dismissed if you threaten my existence with unwanted fuckery.


So if an ex has a 1% chance at making my life miserable,, I'm treating it as an absolute certainty that they will, and cut them off immediately.

I be thinking people purposely introduce bull shit into their lives just to test themselves to see how much they can handle and control at one time.....

 

[Race Jones]

Goldie made a lot of sense here

...And it must be raining in hell if I agree with anything Goldie says lmao

 

[Golden]

Goldie made a lot of sense here

...And it must be raining in hell if I agree with anything Goldie says lmao

we all have our goldie agreement moments. he was hitting the nail on the head in the breastfeeding one. who'd have thought he'd be a lactivist?

 

[Chicity]

Not a fan of remaining friends

I also don't believe in male/female friendships so......

 

[IP360]

We can be cordial...but that's as far as it goes.

Only had one ex...God rest her soul...i was still cool wit.

 

[Goldie]

My whole thing is

How important is This friendship?

On a scale of 1-10 where do you rank it as important to your life??

Cuz I can cut off a 5 or under with no hesitation. Even up to an 8 can dismissed if you threaten my existence with unwanted fuckery.


So if an ex has a 1% chance at making my life miserable,, I'm treating it as an absolute certainty that they will, and cut them off immediately.

I be thinking people purposely introduce bull shit into their lives just to test themselves to see how much they can handle and control at one time.....

I see you don't value friendship that much lol

 

[Golden]

I see you don't value friendship that much lol

wld u pick a friendship with an ex over ur SO if it was problematic to them?

it seems like that's what @King Du was getting that, correct me if I'm wrong Du

 

[Goldie]

wld u pick a friendship with an ex over ur SO if it was problematic to them?

it seems like that's what @King Du was getting that, correct me if I'm wrong Du

Or is that where you're getting at? The thread was simply about remaining cool with an ex. I didn't say anything about someone being in a relationship with a person who didn't like it lol

 

[Golden]

Or is that where you're getting at? The thread was simply about remaining cool with an ex. I didn't say anything about someone being in a relationship with a person who didn't like it lol

ur OP asked if ppl wld mind if they were in a relationship with someone who was tight with their ex. those were the 2 questions, cld u do it and wld u mind if ur partner did.

We can be friendly to each other.
But I don't fuck with them like that for real...

Maybe crack a few jokes on Facebook comment sections.... But that's about it....

I don't entertain or invite potential fuckery into my life

I can't imagine there would be much fuckery if all parties are single.

ur right tho, I have no idea what nature of fuckery Du was talkin bout n I might've just read it that way.

 

[Old Man Cain]

we all have our goldie agreement moments. he was hitting the nail on the head in the breastfeeding one. who'd have thought he'd be a lactivist?

:smh:

 

[Goldie]

ur OP asked if ppl wld mind if they were in a relationship with someone who was tight with their ex. those were the 2 questions, cld u do it and wld u mind if ur partner did.

I can't imagine there would be much fuckery if all parties are single.

ur right tho, I have no idea what nature of fuckery Du was talkin bout n I might've just read it that way.

You're right I forgot I asked that in the OP lol U won this round

 

[Golden]

:smh:

yeah that thread was shameful. fr wanna link it whenever u shoot ur shot with a lady. Ima sneak it into their fb inboxes. ima cockblock in the dark of the night.

 

[Old Man Cain]

yeah that thread was shameful. fr wanna link it whenever u shoot ur shot with a lady. Ima sneak it into their fb inboxes. ima cockblock in the dark of the night.

Shut up nigga

 

[Duwop]

I see you don't value friendship that much lol

Not with my ex's

 

[Goldie]

Not with my ex's

so u like em enough to wife em, but not be friends with, makes sense lol

 

[Duwop]

so u like em enough to wife em, but not be friends with, makes sense lol

Things change.

We were together.

Now we're not. Move on.

We can be cool and civil. But friends we are not.