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Hellczar said:
So don’t none of y’all think that’s a lil weird tho like a whole 20 years
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its unconventional maybe....and thats just in this current time

but no....i personally can hardly hold a convo with someone 10 years younger than me, but I know plenty of people who arent like that.....I got uncles that listen to lil baby and wear their clothes tighter than mine....they get along with younger women just fine lol....im also not asking them what they watch on tv together or if they share political views, cuz not everybody gives a fuck about that

what if they're 40 and 60?.....thats a 20 year living and aging and experience difference all the same....two different era's, tastes in music, medical needs, etc lol
 
1/2 said:
its unconventional maybe....and thats just in this current time

but no....i personally can hardly hold a convo with someone 10 years younger than me, but I know plenty of people who arent like that.....I got uncles that listen to lil baby and wear their clothes tighter than mine....they get along with younger women just fine lol....im also not asking them what they watch on tv together or if they share political views, cuz not everybody gives a fuck about that

what if they're 40 and 60?.....thats a 20 year living and aging and experience difference all the same....two different era's, tastes in music, medical needs, etc lol
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40 & 60 isn't the problem, that's alright. It's just that 20 years old is barely adulthood. I expect a 40 year old to be matured by the time he hits 40 years old.
 
21 is a bit young, I don't know if she it's fully aware of the situation she's walking into.

But if they are both understand what they are there for I see nothing wrong.
 
Jeromeallentown said:
40 & 60 isn't the problem, that's alright. It's just that 20 years old is barely adulthood. I expect a 40 year old to be matured by the time he hits 40 years old.
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so I assume you have this same stance when two 19-20 yr olds wanna get married or have a baby? they aint ready for that right?

20 and 21 is not slow mane lol

people are living on their own, raising children, going to prison, getting married, making whole life decisions at that age and younger

a 40 yr old who may not be that intellectual or "mature" but has his shit together and knows what he wants can have a normal thing with a 20 something woman

women are typically way past mens maturity level at that age.....a lot of them already know what they wanna do with their life and end up frustrated with someone their age and giving them shit because they're not progressing fast enough....which turns into a couple more threads of problems....
 
DOS_patos said:
if she 30 and he 50....then what?

thats 20 years?

or does it only matter if she 20 and he 40?

and do we shame cougars?
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I still view it as weird either way. Not as creepy but still weird. I’m trying figure what people 20 years apart are even talking about. And sex too if 65 and she 45 and your shit ain’t working then what?
 
OhMars said:
21 is a bit young, I don't know if she it's fully aware of the situation she's walking into.

But if they are both understand what they are there for I see nothing wrong.
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Do you apply that to all walks of life for a person of 21 years old?
 
1/2 said:
so I assume you have this same stance when two 19-20 yr olds wanna get married or have a baby? they aint ready for that right?

20 and 21 is not slow mane lol

people are living on their own, raising children, going to prison, getting married, making whole life decisions at that age and younger

a 40 yr old who may not be that intellectual or "mature" but has his shit together and knows what he wants can have a normal thing with a 20 something woman

women are typically way past mens maturity level at that age.....a lot of them already know what they wanna do with their life and end up frustrated with someone their age and giving them shit because they're not progressing fast enough....which turns into a couple more threads of problems....
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Not saying 20 is slow but 20 year old get married a divorced all the time military couples lol can’t even rent a car till 25
 
Hellczar said:
I still view it as weird either way. Not as creepy but still weird. I’m trying figure what people 20 years apart are even talking about. And sex too if 65 and she 45 and your shit ain’t working then what?
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if ya shit dont work at 65...you either get viagra or change ya diet.

and you be surprised at the reason some people are together.

dont really need to be talking too deeply...surface will suffice when its about surface shit.

he could want someone young, tight, hopefully with low miles and not tainted by fuck boys.
she could want a man that can lead her in a direction to be the best version of herself

i dont know....but i wont judge.

i might judge but then ill get over it
 
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DOS_patos said:
if ya shit dont work at 65...you either get viagra or change ya diet.

and you be surprised at the reason some people are together.

dont really need to be talking too deeply...surface will suffice when its about surface shit.

he could want someone young, tight, hopefully with low miles and not tainted by fuck boys.
she could want a man that can lead her in a direction to be the best version of herself

i dont know....but i wont judge.

i might judge but then ill get over it
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I hear you but I’m always gonna view a big gap as weird and some people are just surface level thinkers so if it works cool. I personally wanna be close in age
 
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