Random Thots & Relationships

[IP360]

I should clarify that after we were texting and I was closing out the messages, I said tongue in cheek don't be a stranger. I wasn't implying to take her on a date.Nor was I expecting her to ask me to grab lunch. Lastly when I mentioned Saturdays and gave her a Google maps link to a nearby Starbucks, she said let's do this! Then she'll confirm for this Saturday (this Saturday underlined). I said cool give me a ring Friday/she said will do!! And that is how the conclusion of the messages went.

Proceed wit caution just in case. Don't expect anything. Just go wit the flow. Read the room. If she's just not giving any indication about exploring things again during the convo, then keep it platonic.

I need We need an update!

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Proceed wit caution just in case. Don't expect anything. Just go wit the flow. Read the room. If she's just not giving any indication about exploring things again during the convo, then keep it platonic.

I need We need an update!

So she was supposed to "confirm" last night.. she never did. Lunch is off.

Still unsure of why she was eager to see me after a long time. It is what it is

 

[Ironman]

So she was supposed to "confirm" last night.. she never did. Lunch is off.

Still unsure of why she was eager to see me after a long time. It is what it is

Move on fam she plays too much

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Move on fam she plays too much

I know, and I will. Appreciate the words. it happens to me often with women. Gotta get myself improved, and this shit won't happen anymore

 

[Tayboo]

So she was supposed to "confirm" last night.. she never did. Lunch is off.

Still unsure of why she was eager to see me after a long time. It is what it is

Her lost luv. It so weird to me when people ask you out just to flake out and go ghost. Like what kind of satisfaction does one get wasting someone's time...

 

[Young_Chitlin]

Her lost luv. It so weird to me when people ask you out just to flake out and go ghost. Like what kind of satisfaction does one get wasting someone's time...

Thank you beloved

I have a hunch she'll reach out again.. I know as I continue to improve and increase my value, better options will appear. They'll actually confirm and enjoy the time we spend together. Thank you again for your words, much appreciated

 

[Golan]

 

[TheNightKing]

I know, and I will. Appreciate the words. it happens to me often with women. Gotta get myself improved, and this shit won't happen anymore

You probably the nice guy. She got fucked over by the bad boy, wanted to try something different, then he pulled her back to the dark side before y’all could have lunch.

Shit happens, fuck it.

 

[NegroPrime]

You probably the nice guy. She got fucked over by the bad boy, wanted to try something different, then he pulled her back to the dark side before y’all could have lunch.

Shit happens, fuck it.

I've seen so many women like that it's not even funny.

 

[Golan]

 

[Loquacious]

relationships are hard!

 

[Ironman]

relationships are hard!

Gotta work together harder to get through those rough patches

 

[NegroPrime]

relationships are hard!

Not really.
You can always just leave

 

[Loquacious]

Not really.
You can always just leave

That’s wack. Why leave when things gets hard?

 

[NegroPrime]

That’s wack. Why leave when things gets hard?

Why stay when they're hard?

 

[Tayboo]

Why stay when they're hard?

Because some relationships are worth working through the hard times. Everybody isn't easily replaceable.

 

[NegroPrime]

Because some relationships are worth working through the hard times. Everybody isn't easily replaceable.

Yeah if you're co-defendant. But if not, then why suffer through bad times with someone.
Everybody is replaceable

 

[IP360]

Me keeping other folks relationship problems from infecting mines:

 

[Tayboo]

Yeah if you're co-defendant. But if not, then why suffer through bad times with someone.
Everybody is replaceable

If that's how you feel then there should be no need to commit to be in a relationship at any point.

 

[Tayboo]

Me keeping other folks relationship problems from infecting mines:

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And it always seems like folks wanna share their issues when you and your boo in a good place.