I was thinking about making a thread but I'm not sure, I'll base it on if yall care to discuss it.
In dating someone, would you rather that they be aware of their motivations and emotions, or not entirely be aware. I know it seems like an easy answer, but.
I look at it like, say for instance for a man, this woman is fully aware of how she feels and the exact reason of why she feels that way. And since men and women just operate differently, theres a larger chance of you triggering her, so this woman has a higher chance of being critical of you verbally.
Where as the woman who is not fully aware, is just more emotional in action. Not fully aware of why she feels a way, shes more apt towards having an attitude that you have to soothe, rather than criticizing what you're doing or did?
So what would you rather have, a critical partner that is accurate in their criticism, as far as what they feel. Or a partner that is more emotional but not verbally expressive about it, cause they honestly dont know whu they're in a mood, they just run wit it?