A man doesnt need to be the sole leader in the relationship. sorry
thats such a biblical way of thinking
leaders are prone to error all the time.
relationships are about a partnership.
who has the best skill set to make certain decisions?
Im terrible with money (my spending habits are outrageous) so maybe a man that can help me manange my money responsibly can take the lead when it comes to bills
but lets say he doesnt really know how to navigate other areas of our relationship/daily lives but I do,
ill take the leadership in that.
This isnt really either or...
Im a very submissive woman (I know shocker) and of course I want to look to my man for guidance, humility, balance, and kindness but I hope he also looks to me for that too.
Men leading households is a tired ass trope and I wonder if all the pressure that is put on men to lead is what causes so many marriages/relationships to fail.
I mean niggas are human af