Kissing Your Son on the Lips
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Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
I can totally understand how you see it and why you may see it that way, it doesn't mean it is sexual though.
Like this for example
..men suck on our breasts during sex, that doesn't mean that is what they were made for, they were made to nourish our children first and foremost yet people even sexualize that.
I wasn't raised to think that a kiss was sexual at all so this is all new to me.
OhMars
MEH!
So I can just walk up to you and kiss you on the lips as a greeting and you wont think anything of it? No, because it's sexual on some level.
Like_Water
Be Water, My Friend.
LMAO. My wife and I are super affectionate with our son. He's 3, so we still hug and kiss him non-stop. He loves it. We do too.
We just don't kiss him on the lips. *shrugs* I don't think it will have any bearing on his life whatsoever. To be fair, if we did kiss him on the lips, I don't think that would matter either.
Simply a matter of upbringing and personal preference, as the subject regards to me.
OhMars
MEH!
This
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
It is not sexual, however someone who doesn't know me wouldn't kiss me so I can't really relate to that. I wasn't raised to think a kiss was sexual first and foremost. My parents did not kiss me in a sexual way so my idea of kisses were not that they were sexual, I also was taught that you don't just go around kissing people.
If your grandparents felt it was sexual, they then taught your parents it was sexual who then taught you that it was I would assume... which still doesn't mean a kiss is sexual lol.
OhMars
MEH!
So why did they teach you this. It's not sexual right.
You never got wet from kissing someone?
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
They taught me it because no one should just go around kissing people for no reason. Logically, who does that? Seriously.
I got wet from kissing when it was being done in a SEXUAL way. This still goes back to what I said about not growing up being taught kisses were sexual. I feel nothing SEXUAL when I kiss my parents on the lips, that is disturbing. People who think people DO get a sexual vibe from that are even more disturbing. That would also be implying that one feels sexual thoughts towards their children when kissing them on the lips if you think about it. Anyone who does feel that way really has some issues.
Yeah, some of ya'll need help LMFAO. If every time you kiss someone on the lips you feel a sexual urge that actually sounds personal. I can assure you everyone DOES NOT feel that way.
OhMars
MEH!
Im not saying any of that. Just link kissing and sexual behavior is all. You said kissing was sexual at all and I proved that it was.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
I took what you said as you saying KISSING is first and foremost sexual. It isn't sexual until we make it sexual.
OhMars
MEH!
Nah, I think and still think the origins of kissing on the as sexual, and it has became just a form of affection.
I read somewhere that scientist believe the origins of kissing was to smell out your partners pheromones, witch is sexual in nature.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Well sir, we can agree to disagree because I feel otherwise. I don't feel sexual feelings for everyone that I kiss. That's a little weird.
Again, it isn't sexual until you make it sexual to me.
OhMars
MEH!
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
I understand ma'am, and I can see you're POV.
Now
Nahhhh, I don't want you to think it's a sexual kiss.
OhMars
MEH!
Oh you gonna know its sexual when im speed bagging your uvula with my tongue
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Lmfaooooo, byeeeeee.