LadyDu
Member
Exactly my thought... I told y'all du unknowingly flirts (or knowingly who knows lol) depending on said chicks responds/ body language I'm either not bothered by it or I'm pissed and it time to go before both of them catch these hands.
Jealousy
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Golden
Administrator
thats not jealousy though, that's seeking your attention/presence. jealousy would be blowing up your phone or accusing you of having a side chick that you spend those saturdays with.
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
...what kinda thot-logic is that?? Lol.
Maybe...just maybe...and I know this is farfetched but roll wit me on this...MAYBE...she's secure wit herself
...I know right!
DS_
Member
If you have a problem with your girl being up all night on the phone with another man, then that's out of bounds for your relationship. If that has been stated, then I say there is no room for jealousy, you just need to end the relationship.
LadyDu
Member
*fat girl response *
You right sometime I get jealous when he goes to the wing spot without me!
I hear you slime but fuck all that
I ain't speaking on a dude given his chick a reason to be jealous or going apeshit thru his stiff or questioning everyone he take a call or text. But every now and then she better ask what's up.
Maybe it's just me needing to be kept on my toes cause round here idle hands are the Devils workshop. She stop asking questions and best believe I'm a be wandering like a mofo. You don't care who I'm texting religious? Shit I might as well try.....this ain't but me tho.
Golden
Administrator
nah you're confusing it. seeking/wanting something is neediness. jealousy is when you feel your position is threatened, usually by someone else.
She can be secure as Fort Knox b
She better be performing monthly perimeter checks around here cause......you never know
Better safe than sorry right?
Golden
Administrator
thoughts on snooping thru ur phone?
DS_
Member
Slime? That's a thing? Ok...look homey - if you need somebody to be looking after you day and night so that you don't whip the weenie around, then maybe you just don't need to be in a relationship. Your woman is not your mom and if you focus some of that "IDLE" time on your woman, then you're not so idle
Exactly lol
If she aint concerned about what girls u are in contact with, she either doesn't give af about u or knows nobody wants ur blk ass but her lol
Yikes. I can't even remember the last time I've been jealous. I'm secure in myself and what I bring to the table. It doesn't mean I don't care any less about a nigga. I see it like this, if you're my dude why would you be doing anything that could even spark jealousy?
Black
Still Cole World 🌎
You can be secure within your relationship, but that doesn't have anything to do with outsiders. These rats dgaf bout a man already having a woman these days. Even if he shrugs her off, that don't mean Im not gon feel some type of way. That feeling may cause me to snatch her face off or maybe laugh at her failed advances. Is that jealousy?
That don't make her jealous or not jealous if she ain't asking where you going. She just ain't worried about yo ass.
DS_
Member
A woman who isn't jealous is not an oblivious one. It doesn't have to mean she doesn't care or doesn't know
what you're doing. I know where my woman is and what she's doing right now and she's not with me and
hasn't text me in nearly an hour. But the communication makes it to where neither one of us need to be
jealous.
what you're doing. I know where my woman is and what she's doing right now and she's not with me and
hasn't text me in nearly an hour. But the communication makes it to where neither one of us need to be
jealous.