i'm not bugging...How you created this wild scenario I'll never know. Their previous relationship dont got shit to do with it.
He routinely takes HIS kids. Again, if we don't have nothing but passing words why the hell would I leave my kid with him?
If this was an aunt or uncle who just now wanted to take my kid 5yrs later then the answer would be the same, hell no
A friend of mine is someone I chill with on the reg. I imagine our kids hang out on the reg. Its a party, we all going
A parent from school? Foh b. A play date with us there, sure
It ain't no "let anybody take to kid or let nobody take ya kids' situation. Everyone gets evaluated differently and accordingly.
You bugging
this is the situation....
the woman who you live with. who you have a family with.
she has children from a previous relationship also living with you.
i don't know about yall, but if a child is living with me, that's for all intents and purposes my child too.
I'm going to love that child like my child, and gonna treat that child like my child. and if their father is coming to pick them up, then me and that dude have to have a relationship. ain't no just grabbing ur kids passing.
if it's a just passing situation... then this relationship ain't gonna work for me...
i don't give a fuck who he is.. ..you taking kids out my house......we gotta have a relationship...
and not just any relationship.. if my wife trust you with her kids, then i gotta trust you with my kids... we gotta be that cool....
and if we ain't.. then i can't do the relationship....
i don't see the need to complicate my life with scenarios like this....