Silverfoxx
Bitch mob
I would honestly be more open minded. You won't find all or most of these traits in one person like that. Also it's good to date someone who does not share your common ideologies because it helps broaden your understanding of other individuals. I believe that's why society is so divided now because folks don't wanna expand what they were taught in their safe bubble to understand others background, upbringing, lifestyle, and ideologies.Black males of this thread: What do you think I could do to find a Black male of my qualifications above? Any tips? Would you date someone like me, knowing my qualifications and how I have responded to everyone so far? Be honest!
I truly believe if you are serious about understanding the black culture you should date a black man that doesn't share alot of your traits and both of you guys go into it with a open heart and understanding.
No disrespect but the fact that you believe entitlement to not be a negative trait is fine, but it's also counter productive if you won't allow yourself to be more open. Perhaps their is a deep psychological connection with degrees of fear, spite, frustration, and lust that you should be open too. The main word from all of this is "open", I promise you if you don't do so then the internal forces you may encounter as a black woman will never be resolved, but only numbed but temporary pleasures.
I think my background would surprise you, but I do believe this thread and you being here is important to the black community as a whole.