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Is it wrong to only date one race?

Alle'Oop said:
- Strong traditional family values
What's the point of a family, to conservative strong family values mean a man a woman. Many broken families come from this set up and it has no basis in being the most proper foundation of support, it's a pipe dream

- Limited government
Anyone who is asked what they mean by this has no actual understanding of what the government actually does

- Capitalist
- Opposes government intervention such as social welfare
The government fueled by conservative regularly bail out "capitalistic entities" and make take payers flip to bill, question me, I got tones of examples...so ur for capitalistic welfare?

- The country should be guided by customs, laws, and traditions over feelings
Yeah it should, why does a arm of the Texas school board which preside over the school books for the nation want mentions of slavery stricken from textbooks but have no issue wirh mention ww1,2, the Vietnam war or the holocaust

- The lower the taxes the better
Lol...da fuck are you even talking about..we need air to breath..no shit

- High sense of unwavering allegiance to
their country (America in this case)
Sure why not show full allegiance to something no matter what it does, that's not cult at all

- Patriotism, Nationalism
Ayo..shut the fuck up

- Pro military and wars
Once again..u have no fucking idea about anything

- Fiscal conservation
Fam

- Gender roles are not to be changed
Meh..not my fight

- The constitution trumps everything
It should shouldnt it? Are we a christain nation?

- Interventionist foreign policy
Bet you dont even care to know why, as black woman..that's comical

- Opposed to immigration
Lol...you're stupid
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Oh, honey, I am not here to argue my views with you... this is not a political debate forum. I said what I said- but I was just expounding on what my beliefs were per your previous question to me. I am very solid and firm in my views and always sleep well at night too, no problems there.
 
People!
Please stop derailing the thread if you do not want to help or you are just posting wisecracks on this topic. No need for all this tomfoolery and horseplay, okay? Thank you in advance.

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DugoutDubya said:
Okay. Here is what I am looking for. Let me know your thoughts, everyone. Please let me know why I am having trouble finding this?!?


My basics I am looking for:
  • Good communicator
  • Agnostic or Atheist- Absolutely no exceptions
  • High emotional IQ
  • Witty
  • Respectful
  • Honest
  • Cultured
  • Has a variety of hobbies
  • Cerebral
  • Worldly, has traveled extensively already
  • Republican- No exceptions
  • Conservative- No exceptions
  • Bachelor's degree from a university (no community college!!) at minimum, but would really prefer a Master's or PhD.
  • White-collar
  • Two-parent home with parents who are still together (unless they were widowed--no divorce or separation though)
  • Old fashioned, traditional values and gender roles- No exceptions
  • Absolutely no smoking of any kind, light social drinking but no more than that
  • Family orientated
  • (A bit of) cockiness, arrogance
  • Loves to travel, especially internationally
  • Knows how to navigate high society functions

Would be nice...:
  • Diverse music taste, loves Classic and Rock (not that stupid New Age crap- I am talking about the classics- Ozzy Osbourne, Bon Jovi, and Eric Clapton) in particular

  • Loves boating- family owns a lake house and yacht that we go on twice weekly in the summer
  • Loves outdoors in general- hiking, RV'ing, camping, State Parks

  • Extroverted
  • Loves intellectual banter, debates, trivia nights, and other things like that


Physically:
  • Nice sense of classic preppy style (like I myself have)- no streetwear, no too small t-shirts that are riding up, no tight skinny pants that fit like my leggings, no Addidas soccer training pants, no Puma sweatsuit in a single color, and so on. Instead, someone who's style on a casual day is, for example: Docker's trousers, a gingham or seersucker button-up, a pair of Duck Boots or Sperry's, Ray Ban's w/Croakie, and Titleist hat.
  • (This is a common outfit of my male Black friend I mentioned earlier, just to give you all an example of the aesthetic)
  • Neither fat nor stick skinny. Not bodybuilder muscular. Not too tall or shorter than me.
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Your first name Candace?
 
bluntedsultan said:
Yeah, relaxing it would help. Nothing wrong with you being honest about what your looking for, but if you have had recent difficulties in finding a black man, or any man who fits the profile enough for you then at that point it's not the man who's the problem.

Oh believe me i understand the whole "issues" thing quite well, as I said it wouldn't be a total deal breaker.
I'm more flexible than most but i'm not mr. fantastic or elastagirl if you understand my analogy
I know you love your parents and they mean well but they're not dating you or you significant other.
You're not finding love for them, they're already married.

Honestly I'd talk to you/get to know you, that's why i'm pretty much the only person taking you serious
That and i'm trying to dispel any negative energy about this place
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Yes, seeing I have been having trouble for a while now I think I will loosen up a bit. Are there other qualifications that are ruling out Black men too would you say?

Yeah, my family is very tight-knit and I'm connected to them financially as well so that causes a bit of pressure on me, but I do need to work on putting more boundaries in place between us even though I struggle with that.

I appreciate and recognize your sincere kindness; thank you. You are very nice.
 
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