Is it wrong to only date one race?

[DugoutDubya]

I don't feel like reading w/e it is you're responding to. Why are you still quoting me when I said I was done and wished you a wonderful Thanksgiving?

I found it necessary. Just don't read my posts then if it bothers you. :) :) :)

 

[Duwop]

Are you stereotyping? :Pathetic:

I'm trying to visualize this imaginary guy of yours....

Like what kind of personlity you just described.

He sounds very entitled. Spoiled. Selfish. Not a nice guy.


Maybe a Laurence.... He prolly plays a sport too..... Baseball

 

[DugoutDubya]

ill reveal my hand as you show yours but I am also agnostic, and I do have some conservative viewpoints about certain things. I just don't see myself getting too wrapped up into the show of politics prevalent in our modern American society

I would say I am not a Trump Republican, but I am pretty conservative in my viewpoints all around.

 

[Black 🖤]

I found it necessary. Just don't read my posts then if it bothers you. :) :) :)

So educated, but terrible basic comprehension. I think you might be stupid, to be honest. You don't listen (read) very well. That's unattractive.

 

[Duwop]

So educated, but terrible basic comprehension. I think you might be stupid, to be honest. You don't listen (read) very well. That's unattractive.

And you know Stanley ain't about to have a woman who don't listen

 

[DugoutDubya]

I'm trying to visualize this imaginary guy of yours....

Like what kind of personlity you just described.

He sounds very entitled. Spoiled. Selfish. Not a nice guy.


Maybe a Laurence.... He prolly plays a sport too..... Baseball

Some pic examples:

 

[DugoutDubya]

I'm trying to visualize this imaginary guy of yours....

Like what kind of personlity you just described.

He sounds very entitled. Spoiled. Selfish. Not a nice guy.


Maybe a Laurence.... He prolly plays a sport too..... Baseball

Also, I would say I am a bit spoiled/entitled myself so I do not mind that trait as I don't believe it is inherently a bad one.

 

[DugoutDubya]

So educated, but terrible basic comprehension. I think you might be stupid, to be honest. You don't listen (read) very well. That's unattractive.

I listen and read *extremely* well, thank you very much.

What do you look like? Describe yourself, please.

 

[DugoutDubya]

And you know Stanley ain't about to have a woman who don't listen

More stereotyping?!? Really? :sayword: I am trying to find myself a Black male so this type of foolery is not helping Duwop. I am disapointed.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

You know aside from the fact that anyone who is young and that embedded in conservative beliefs. Will have had it ingrained in them by older christain parents, so they will not be agnostic as the two are opposite ends of the spectrum.

Because as an agnostic, you'd have to be socially liberal. Someone who is socially liberal and fiscally conservative, would be too....

theres nothing good on TV tonight

 

[AZTG]

Okay. Here is what I am looking for. Let me know your thoughts, everyone. Please let me know why I am having trouble finding this?!?


My basics I am looking for:

• Good communicator
• Agnostic or Atheist- Absolutely no exceptions
• High emotional IQ
• Witty
• Respectful
• Honest
• Cultured
• Has a variety of hobbies
• Cerebral
• Worldly, has traveled extensively already
• Republican- No exceptions
• Conservative- No exceptions
• Bachelor's degree from a university (no community college!!) at minimum, but would really prefer a Master's or PhD.
• White-collar
• Two-parent home with parents who are still together (unless they were widowed--no divorce or separation though)
• Old fashioned, traditional values and gender roles- No exceptions
• Absolutely no smoking of any kind, light social drinking but no more than that
• Family orientated
• (A bit of) cockiness, arrogance
• Loves to travel, especially internationally
• Knows how to navigate high society functions

Would be nice...:

• Diverse music taste, loves Classic and Rock (not that stupid New Age crap- I am talking about the classics- Ozzy Osbourne, Bon Jovi, and Eric Clapton) in particular

• Loves boating- family owns a lake house and yacht that we go on twice weekly in the summer
• Loves outdoors in general- hiking, RV'ing, camping, State Parks

• Extroverted
• Loves intellectual banter, debates, trivia nights, and other things like that

Physically:

• Nice sense of classic preppy style (like I myself have)- no streetwear, no too small t-shirts that are riding up, no tight skinny pants that fit like my leggings, no Addidas soccer training pants, no Puma sweatsuit in a single color, and so on. Instead, someone who's style on a casual day is, for example: Docker's trousers, a gingham or seersucker button-up, a pair of Duck Boots or Sperry's, Ray Ban's w/Croakie, and Titleist hat.
• (This is a common outfit of my male Black friend I mentioned earlier, just to give you all an example of the aesthetic)
• Neither fat nor stick skinny. Not bodybuilder muscular. Not too tall or shorter than me.

Without a college degree im smarter than any man you'll ever meet. And I dont mean street smart either. I'm talking well read, ill your school your ass in politics, philosophy, history etc.

And there is no way you cant find a black man to fit those qualifications but find a bunch of white dudes that do.

You telling me there a handful of conservative, college graduate republicans who arent religious that you've met in you life time? Thats an oxymoron. That doesnt exist.

Clearly you're harder on your own kind but make exceptions for other races cause theres no way you met multiple men in your lifetime that fit half of those qualifications. There are psycological reasons for that, but you read 110 books a year right? Read a few psychology books and figure it out.

But even more clearly, close this thread man. She aint real. She said she want a college graduate thats a republican who is agnostic AND claims she already dated white dudes who fit that bill. Better luck finding a fucking unicorn.

 

[DugoutDubya]

Black males of this thread: What do you think I could do to find a Black male of my qualifications above? Any tips? Would you date someone like me, knowing my qualifications and how I have responded to everyone so far? Be honest!

 

[Black 🖤]

I listen and read *extremely* well, thank you very much.

What do you look like? Describe yourself, please.

You obviously don't. You don't spell that great either. Again, unattractive.

Why am I describing myself to you? Not interested.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

Black males of this thread: What do you think I could do to find a Black male of my qualifications above? Any tips? Would you date someone like me, knowing my qualifications and how I have responded to everyone so far? Be honest!

Why would u want to date a black man?

 

[bluntedsultan]

Do you feel that I am asking for too much? It is just I feel much of this is basic or should be basic in a man...?

• Agnostic or Atheist- Absolutely no exceptions
• Cultured
• Republican- No exceptions
• Conservative- No exceptions
• Two-parent home with parents who are still together (unless they were widowed--no divorce or separation though)

this is not basic, also you contradict yourself. No man who is 100% conservative is going to be agnostic, and definitely not atheist.
Cultured is kind of basic but I kept it cause I have a hunch your version of cultured is different from everyone else's version
Is divorce or separation some kind of omen for you?

I had more kept but looking over them again I didn't see anything extremely wrong. These were the ones that stuck out the most to me. I have both of my parents at home but i'm not gonna say that my future woman needs to be from the same environment. I mean it would be nice but thats not a deal breaker.

you eliminated most black men out the gate already, intentionally or unintentionally

I would say I am not a Trump Republican, but I am pretty conservative in my viewpoints all around.

If you were I'd have to start distancing myself

 

[DugoutDubya]

You know aside from the fact that anyone who is young and that embedded in conservative beliefs. Will have had it ingrained in them by older christain parents, so they will not be agnostic as the two are opposite ends of the spectrum.

Because as an agnostic, you'd have to be socially liberal. Someone who is socially liberal and fiscally conservative, would be too....

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I, personally, am agnostic. My family is spiritual bordering on Christian. They did take me to church a few times when younger but I did not like it at all so I stopped going and they eventually stopped going as well because they were not entrenched in the church. My entire family is Republican, and I was raised one as well, but I am the most "hardcore" if you will call it that, out of all of them. I really came into my own beliefs in high school.

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[Duwop]

 

[ImaInfluenza]

I, personally, am agnostic. My family is spiritual bordering on Christian. They did take me to church a few times when younger but I did not like it at all so I stopped going and they eventually stopped going as well because they were not entrenched in the church. My entire family is Republican, and I was raised one as well, but I am the most "hardcore" if you will call it that, out of all of them. I really came into my own beliefs in high school.

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Describe what you believe a conservative is and believes.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

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[DugoutDubya]

Without a college degree im smarter than any man you'll ever meet. And I dont mean street smart either. I'm talking well read, ill your school your ass in politics, philosophy, history etc.

And there is no way you cant find a black man to fit those qualifications but find a bunch of white dudes that do.

You telling me there a handful of conservative, college graduate republicans who arent religious that you've met in you life time? Thats an oxymoron. That doesnt exist.

Clearly you're harder on your own kind but make exceptions for other races cause theres no way you met multiple men in your lifetime that fit half of those qualifications. There are psycological reasons for that, but you read 110 books a year right? Read a few psychology books and figure it out.

But even more clearly, close this thread man. She aint real. She said she want a college graduate thats a republican who is agnostic AND claims she already dated white dudes who fit that bill. Better luck finding a fucking unicorn.

While your posts do not reflect your first statement, I will trust you on that. I do know that there are some men (unicorns) out there like you.

I said Race B- did not state what race that is.

Yes, I have dated many a Race B man who fits all of those qualifications.

I do read a ton but haven't cracked open a psych book in a while.

I don't do cursing.