Not everyone is social
Not everyone has a support system
Not everyone has coworkers they trust they can go to for this kinda situation
Not everyone can just easily walk away from that kinda situation, and not think about the consequences.
Those are facts people. THAT is reality.
So it boggles my mind as to how anyone would just assume, if they can remove themselves if put in that situation, then why can't others? Easy...not everyone is like you.
Yes YOU may be the strong willed type who can easily resolve that kinda issue. But that's YOU. Not everyone is YOU. What works for you, doesn't mean it works for others. And why would you chastised someone who can't??
My cousin was in a physical and emotional abusive relationship wit her now dead ex-husband for YEARS. Fortunately she was able to finally get out of it. And that's only b/c she had a family that helped her. But not everyone has that luxury. So for those to find it hard to believe that someone doesn't have that, why? I don't understand why you find that hard to believe.
Saying that only makes me think you're only seeing things from YOUR perspective. Only going by what YOU would do in that situation. You have someone, who in not so many words, told you they've went thru this 1st hand. So is it her fault she didn't up and leave at the snap of a finger? Is it my cousin's fault she stayed for fear of some sorta retaliation had she left sooner? Are actually blaming those, both male and female, for not having the strength to leave? If so, why?
