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I can admit my part in the way things are, that 2017 altercation between me and someone else set the site down the path that we're on now. From here on out I'll do better. If I get out of line @AP21 @Chicity pull me to the side and let me know. I'm not going to speak on what someone else can do cause that's not my place.
 
Some of yall human interaction skills are trash bro.

Dont no one likes it when a group of about 20 people gets together and singles 2 people out and keeps telling them to explain what the issue is.

Shit is simple as fuck. So stop asking @Meeks and @Kandy to explain themselves over and over. The issue has been described enough times. Yall dont need to keep pressuring them to point out specific cases and posters.
 
AP21 said:
Listen man, I don't operate as a rogue mod or admin. If I had things my way, well, we won't go down that path

And if we just started the site over, how many of y'all really think y'all gonna get an invite to come back?
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You should change the sub forums around maybe delete some stuff, get a new round of mods, and allow the same ppl tocome back but change the system of how you deal with Poster to poster conflicts and the punishment system to protect both men and women.

Start fresh

in my opinion
 
AZTG said:
Some of yall human interaction skills are trash bro.

Dont no one likes it when a group of about 20 people gets together and singles 2 people out and keeps telling them to explain what the issue is.

Shit is simple as fuck. So stop asking @Meeks and @Kandy to explain themselves over and over. The issue has been described enough times. Yall dont need to keep pressuring them to point out specific cases and posters.
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I for one not asking the women.

I’m asking y’all becuase y’all say y’all see it all the time.

if dudes really pressing women I myself wanna know because I wanna chill with interactions with the posters. Because that shit is foul to harass women.
 
5th Letter said:
Whoever made the women uncomfortable how about @AP21 and @Chicity set up a private DM and air out the grievances in private. Then talk to the offenders privately in a separate DM, then if it persists then take whatever steps you have to take from there.
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Yea.

This.

Thread can be closed now
 
Horsecock Williams said:
You should change the sub forums around maybe delete some stuff, get a new round of mods, and allow the same ppl tocome back but change the system of how you deal with Poster to poster conflicts and the punishment system to protect both men and women.

Start fresh

in my opinion
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This is being discussed currently prior to this thread but this is a start
 
Meeks said:
I read something someone said and it has since been edited. That’s why I said all that I said. It now looks like confusion. This is also why I said what I said, the ones who understand already know what needs to be done so I’m not saying anything else about it.
How many times does someone have to say the same shit?

My hostility comes in when I have to repeat myself because nah.
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I feel you. Unfortunately, that's the way of the world. Black people been telling cops for decades to shape up, and we're still getting murdered in the streets. People been asking why the Floyd murder has led to all it has. Ain't no answer to that other than some people don't see or hear shit until they are ready to see or hear it.

AZTG said:
Some of yall human interaction skills are trash bro.

Dont no one likes it when a group of about 20 people gets together and singles 2 people out and keeps telling them to explain what the issue is.

Shit is simple as fuck. So stop asking @Meeks and @Kandy to explain themselves over and over. The issue has been described enough times. Yall dont need to keep pressuring them to point out specific cases and posters.
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I get what you saying, but if those are the primary people complaining, they are going to be the ones pushed to explain the complaints. If the mods have all the info they need to make a decision, then just dead this discussion and push whatever changes you see fit.
 
One of you guys who have been heavy in this thread asked for trillfate to be apart of this forum a few months ago who is the master of making women uncomfortable

I find that funny too

No diss..it’s just...funny
 
Couple take-aways after reading all this shit... there's obviously folks that want names to be named and shit to be brought to the spotlight... I dont really think this is the thread for that.. im in agreement with @Chicity that this thread was meant for us to LISTEN.

If yall wanna name names and talk about it from there... like @AP21 always say... "make the thread"

Secondly... and I might be alone on this shit.. hell utilize the report feature. If there are habitual line steppers and niggas out here doing the most... set a standard to where if a post is reported or flagged by X amount of members.... A trial thread is setup... the person or persons involved get to plead their case and the COMMUNITY votes on what happens to the offender

All that to say this... we wouldn't have all these issues if muhfuckas knew how to communicate, debate and engage with each other without resorting to petty insults like fuckin children.

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That's all I got
 
Mods might want to delete the Candy Shop thread too.

That shit brings the type of posters that’s not wanted here
 
Btw nothing was gained from this thread besides some additional awareness but that’s okay you can’t build Rome in a day and you can’t expect a solution this quickly

I think this is the beginning of a glorious resurgence
 
Horsecock Williams said:
Btw nothing was gained from this thread besides some additional awareness but that’s okay you can’t build Rome in a day and you can’t expect a solution this quickly

I think this is the beginning of a glorious resurgence
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I vehemently disagree
 
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