roi baptiste
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i respect your answer.Truthfully after my 6th date me & my wife had sex...... the number 8 is not unreasonable.
i respect your answer.Truthfully after my 6th date me & my wife had sex...... the number 8 is not unreasonable.
I would say 8 is on the high end. I'm a younger millennial so my point of view my be different. These days there should be some sexual tension within the first 3-4 dates.
i posed this same question to some of my co workers awhile back(male&female) their answers pretty much fell in line with what i said.
I agree. Sexual attraction is the first thing that gets you interested. If I'm not sexually attracted to a chick, we aren't going out on a date.There would be some sexual tension without even the littlest date, nowadays.
I agree. Sexual attraction is the first thing that gets you interested. If I'm not sexually attracted to a chick, we aren't going out on a date.
i can respect your answer.I can only speak for myself, can't tell someone else what they should think in this scenario.
I don't even know what constitute as a 'date' to y'all. I don't go on "dates" with chicks I just wanna f*ck. I reserve that for someone I wanna take seriously, and with that, I let things happens organically, so to speak. It breeds symbiosis.
I'm always transparent from the onset when I just want a releaseee...
So if she's still not telling me she's down for get down on the 3rd link up... *deleting number*
I can only speak for myself, can't tell someone else what they should think in this scenario.
I don't even know what constitute as a 'date' to y'all. I don't go on "dates" with chicks I just wanna f*ck. I reserve that for someone I wanna take seriously, and with that, I let things happens organically, so to speak. It breeds symbiosis.
I'm always transparent from the onset when I just want a releaseee...
So if she's still not telling me she's down for get down on the 3rd link up... *deleting number*
I respect that.
But still... from what I've experimented, you can get way more opportunities just by casually going to a cafe, chilling around or taking the same bus along a woman who showcases some desire toward you.
See that's what i meant in the previous post... I don't consider those as dates.
Dates to me, is going to a restaurant, art gallery, music lounge, museum, picnic or cookout, scenic boat ride or beach (when it's not densely populated).. things of that nature.
Stopped having casual sex for the most part I can’t handle that ish no mo. It starting to get to the point even that unless she have marriage potential I find it hard to make sex a habit I just can’t be out here like that
As it should be. Folks fucked up the casual sex game a long time ago. Chicks be looking for husbands outta every dude they let hit and dudes be telling girls whatever they want to hear so long as they get to smash.
Never understood why two people cant agree to get they screw on and bounce. then again I grew up before Tinder so maybe folks see it different now.