Head of the household.

[Sam Crooke]

good luck being broke while she out buying whatever tf she wanna buy

I'm in control of my finances

 

[AP3.0]

I'm in control of my finances

true

but you just said you wouldnt feel right asking her to contribute to bills to which she is also a benefactor

 

[Sam Crooke]

I'm a cheap muthafuckka. I do what the white folks do and trying to do it better

 

[Sam Crooke]

true

but you just said you wouldnt feel right asking her to contribute to bills to which she is also a benefactor

I said big bills. Now all the grocery shopping and cable, other small stuff she got. As long as my credit stay right we good

 

[Golden]

true

but you just said you wouldnt feel right asking her to contribute to bills to which she is also a benefactor

if she makes less, splitting the bills 50/50 wouldn't make much sense. I can understand the more financially comfortable party covering bills, and thats more likely to be the man.

 

[AP3.0]

if she makes less, splitting the bills 50/50 wouldn't make much sense. I can understand the more financially comfortable party covering bills, and thats more likely to be the man.

it dont work like that tho

i aint never ask to split it 50/50. It goes into one account regardless of the discrepancy in pay.

 

[SeaSnake]

Ideally this is cool. In reality most black people dont make enough for one person to support the whole family. If this what you want cool but it may take forever.

 

[Golden]

Ideally this is cool. In reality most black people dont make enough for one person to support the whole family. If this what you want cool but it may take forever.

this is negative af lol

 

[SeaSnake]

this is negative af lol

True tho i mean we not bad decision makers but factory jobs that paid all the bills are gone now

 

[Golden]

True tho i mean we not bad decision makers but factory jobs that paid all the bills are gone now

true but people are still managing on one income, usually by force (men not being in the picture, etc). I'm sure getting by on one income could happen by choice in many 2 parent households, too.

 

[BDP™️]

While ues, I agree with the man being true head of houshold and leading.....its not solely based on finances...bit thats another thread for another day...

If we both working wtf I look like "splitting" bills. Any income that comes in the house is going where it needs to be regardless of whos check it came from.

Aint no such thing as seperate personal accounts bih.

One account for bills
One account for spending
A savings account

At minimum.

 

[AP3.0]

one account for bills
separate accounts for spending
a savings account

this is how i like to operate

 

[Sam Crooke]

one account for bills
separate accounts for spending
a savings account

this is how i like to operate

How's that working for you and the Mrs?

 

[AP3.0]

How's that working for you and the Mrs?

you still getting allowance arent you? I would say pretty damn good then

 

[Sam Crooke]

you still getting allowance arent you? I would say pretty damn good then

From who? I'm my own bank and banker