That’s why I said it’s a personal thing. I don’t like to feel like i owe anybody, period. Grandma, mama, my neighbor, a friend, a random person from down the street, anybody. I’d much rather get it on my own to avoid the feeling. I’m 100% sure my mama wants no payback from all that she’s given me, still doesn’t change the way i feel.girl that's your mama. You have probably already done or will do enough for her (not necessarily monetary wise) that she feels no amount of money can pay for). I mean I get where you are coming from but that's mama. My dad does stuff like that all the time he always says stuff like "I'm old at least My children and grandchild can enjoy my moneys" it makes him happy I guess. I purposefully don't talk about anything financial with him because of his generosity. Its not like your taking advantage by asking her to do this.
I would 100% agree if it were somebody else.