Royal
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This is crazy to me, you dont need to be wealthy to get prenup. Lmao one of the first things me and my current wifey talked about when we decided we wanted to be with each other and get married was prenup. We talked about finances (including how much we make, what debts we had, expenses), parenting style, health history, etc. need to know and should know things. And we're getting prenup and also discussed how things would be allocated as well.
Nobody wants to divorce or break up but anything can happen and if it does, it's extremely important to be prepared. Would you still have that mentality if your spouse cheated on you multiple times ?
I have a more idealistic view of marriage. The practical side of if we don't make it till death do us part...what happens to our things is not a concern.
If you plan for failure, then inevitably failure meets you at your doorstep.
All that seems fear based.... fear of it not working and being ass out. Fear of your ex spouse taking more than what is "rightfully" theirs.... fear of working and building an income and lifestyle all to be "taken" by the person sleeping next to you.
Definitely trying to not live my life and make fear based decisions on material things that I can't take with me when I die.
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