I'm saying, a single woman wants what a married woman has. So she looks at it in a more positive envious light. And if she's a friend, she's not willing to let you fuck it up.
A married woman has what other married women have. The ones that have less are envious in a negative light. Want to fuck it up, at the same time. Wants her friend to do the shit she don't have the nerve to do herself.
So she's more than likely to gas her married friend into doing shit that would destroy the marriage. She bored and love messy shit, but afraid to messy up her own shit like that