Niggas don’t know what they wanna do. Just do what the fuck you wanna do. The older I get, the more I realize people are wasting time tryna do shit by the “rules”.
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Chasing
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Rubato
it only matters to us
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Soul_Rattler
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I think it comes down to waste.
To reference Patrice O'Neal again, men value their time/money the way women value their vaginas. How you give it away is an indicator of how much you value it. And the same way a woman would hate to give her vagina to a man not genuinely interested in her, a man would hate to give his time and, in most cases money, to a woman not genuinely interested.
So don't tell men to chase without telling women not to run.
To reference Patrice O'Neal again, men value their time/money the way women value their vaginas. How you give it away is an indicator of how much you value it. And the same way a woman would hate to give her vagina to a man not genuinely interested in her, a man would hate to give his time and, in most cases money, to a woman not genuinely interested.
So don't tell men to chase without telling women not to run.
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
I see it like this: If I'm feelin her and she's feelin me, why am I chasing her? Quit with the bullshit and let's build together!
Aside from that, these young niggas ain't being taught right. You don't "lock it down" with a broad just 'cause she gave you a lil ass; that's the problem with y'all young dudes. You trying to cuff every broad out there without knowing shit about her. Y'all ain't even trying to date for a while before claiming the chick; two dates in and maybe one fuck and y'all "a couple". That's stupid as fuck! Then you complaining about how she crazy as fuck, she went through my phone, she did this and that "... but the pussy fire!". Is that it??? You gonna put up with a bunch of bullshit just 'cause the pussy good?
Every broad ain't to be cuffed; some are just there to fuck and that's it. Just like every dude ain't to be fucked with for the long term, they're just there for a woman's pleasure and that's it. You avoid a lot of headaches if you're more selective about who you try to settle down with. The goal is to find a good woman you're compatible with and settle down with her, that ain't gonna happen unless you spend time getting to know a chick.
Aside from that, these young niggas ain't being taught right. You don't "lock it down" with a broad just 'cause she gave you a lil ass; that's the problem with y'all young dudes. You trying to cuff every broad out there without knowing shit about her. Y'all ain't even trying to date for a while before claiming the chick; two dates in and maybe one fuck and y'all "a couple". That's stupid as fuck! Then you complaining about how she crazy as fuck, she went through my phone, she did this and that "... but the pussy fire!". Is that it??? You gonna put up with a bunch of bullshit just 'cause the pussy good?
Every broad ain't to be cuffed; some are just there to fuck and that's it. Just like every dude ain't to be fucked with for the long term, they're just there for a woman's pleasure and that's it. You avoid a lot of headaches if you're more selective about who you try to settle down with. The goal is to find a good woman you're compatible with and settle down with her, that ain't gonna happen unless you spend time getting to know a chick.
TonyDubbz
Legion of Trill | Keep god in ya life, fuck nigga
Word....Life
Haa..I threw that shit before I walked in tha ROOM
^^^^^this
A little chase, cat n mouse, playing hard to get is cool for a minute but it carries on too long is a nigga wrong for “quitting”...
You play games and get somebody that is adequate in “playing” with you then you wondering how you ended up wit’ a “player”...
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
I'll never forget sittin on the freight on my way to work in Ann Arbor and I overheard these two dudes talking about the crazy broad one cat had cuffed and made his woman. He said her name and that made me pay attention 'cause it was unique and I had a fuck buddy with the same name. Turns out it was her, but I never knew about the level of crazy she had 'cause I knew from jump that she wasn't someone I was trying to settle down with. We kept it strictly fuckin and that's it. Had that pussy on tap until she settled down with some dude she met at work...
... who was sitting in front of me complaining about how crazy she was.
The chick was fine as shit. Can't take that away from her. But I peeped her shit before it got to the point of even considering "dating" her and relegated her to "Thursday night booty call" status.
I wrote all that to reiterate the same thing I said earlier: Get to know the chick before you call yourself lockin' it down. Crazy can be spotted a mile away, don't let a pretty face, titties, and a fat ass cloud your judgement.
... who was sitting in front of me complaining about how crazy she was.
The chick was fine as shit. Can't take that away from her. But I peeped her shit before it got to the point of even considering "dating" her and relegated her to "Thursday night booty call" status.
I wrote all that to reiterate the same thing I said earlier: Get to know the chick before you call yourself lockin' it down. Crazy can be spotted a mile away, don't let a pretty face, titties, and a fat ass cloud your judgement.
Love
Aqua 🌞❤️ ~ Aries 🌚👊🏾
I think if a man is really interested he will chase. I don’t chase but I’m a woman so...
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
Yep.....she stiff armed me because my girl was in the audience.
Long story. But when we broke up..it was back on.
Our very first conversation I planted the seed and we ain't look back since.
I did break up with her a few times for like 2 hours.
But aye....here we are
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For how long?
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
He can be really interested but unwilling to chase you because, in his mind, you should recognize his qualities and want to be with him as much as he wants to be with you.
Love
Aqua 🌞❤️ ~ Aries 🌚👊🏾
Idk lol
Herbal Kint
The devil is in the details
@Kandycita @Love how would y'all define chase?
Being persistent in showing interest