FEATURED Bro Code: Your Boy's Ex

[SeaSnake]

A clip from the Budden podcast sparked a debate in the JBP thread.

In your opinion, what's off limits?


Is smashing your boy's ex off limits?

Is smashing your boy's old work (not an ex) off limits?

Is remaining cool with your boy's ex off limits?



The JBP clip:

Lol ayo why this nigga Joe Budden be trying trigger niggas

 

[dodge]

Cause it’s Joe Budden

I’m surprised people still give him the time of day

 

[mryounggun]

I dated one of my nigga's exes in high school. I knew that nigga ain't give a fuck. I asked the nigga. He confirmed he ain't give a fuck. The end. I wouldn't ever do that today though.

 

[loud-ninja]

@Swabbie looks like you lost your 5 dollars

 

[5th Letter]

Joe Budden is the master gaslighter.

 

[mryounggun]

@Swabbie looks like you lost your 5 dollars

In the interest of fairness...I said that I dated a friend's ex...not that I wouldn't care of a friend dated my ex.

But...I wouldn't care. *shrugs*

 

[loud-ninja]

In the interest of fairness...I said that I dated a friend's ex...not that I wouldn't care of a friend dated my ex.

But...I wouldn't care. *shrugs*

True. I leaned more on your last sentence where you said you wouldnt do it today.

 

[dodge]

I dated one of my nigga's exes in high school. I knew that nigga ain't give a fuck. I asked the nigga. He confirmed he ain't give a fuck. The end. I wouldn't ever do that today though.

High school ex girlfriends often times never should be taken seriously

Teenage relationships are usually whimsical unless the rare exception they actually develop a relationship as adults

 

[Revolver Ocelot]

Any time you gotta sneak or keep it from a certain person ... That's a sign you moving dirty. But if it was a situation where no one should even care... Go for it

Exactly. If 2, presumably, single people gotta sneak around to be with each other. Then they both know deep down they're doing some foul shit.

 

[SeaSnake]

Exactly. If 2, presumably, single people gotta sneak around to be with each other. Then they both know deep down they're doing some foul shit.

Thing is that turns some people on lol shit women mess with married niggas that they know are married for that reason.

 

[TTBF]

I agree with the last 3 choices in the op. Assuming all 3 allow varying context.

 

[Dwayne]

Thing is that turns some people on lol shit women mess with married niggas that they know are married for that reason.

Foreal. It’s like part of 4-play for folks like that.

 

[SeaSnake]

Foreal. It’s like part of 4-play for folks like that.

My thing is they want empathy when it goes wrong like bitch you was wrong. If I fuck somebody wife and he beat my ass that’s part of life.

 

[Old Man Cain]

Yeah, it don't matter how bad she is or how cool she is. If she's my boy's ex or his jump off. I can't fuck with her I may look at her and think about it lol but never would I cross that line. Just principle of things for me even if my homie was on some "bruh I was just fucking that broad I don't care" nah nigga you'll care or bring it up later lol so I'm good.

 

[Old Man Cain]

 

[Dwayne]

I know we all have different codes but this one should be universal

Scust at some of yall.

 

[SeaSnake]

I know we all have different codes but this one should be universal

Scust at some of yall.

Lol I didn’t see anything problematic

 

[#1hiphopjunki3]

How cool are you with the friend? A lot of folks call any and everyone a friend.

If it’s a real friend I wouldn’t do it.

If it’s just a person who I’m cordial with,

 

[Dwayne]

How cool are you with the friend? A lot of folks call any and everyone a friend.

If it’s a real friend I wouldn’t do it.

If it’s just a person who I’m cordial with,

The word friend is used loosely

 

[Duwop]

Yeah, it don't matter how bad she is or how cool she is. If she's my boy's ex or his jump off. I can't fuck with her I may look at her and think about it lol but never would I cross that line. Just principle of things for me even if my homie was on some "bruh I was just fucking that broad I don't care" nah nigga you'll care or bring it up later lol so I'm good.

This nigga lying, you could tell Cain about the love of your life and he'll be like

"What's her number dawg, you wasn't doing it right"