Two months later and I feel the same, no new males can come into her circle of friends
Are U Cool With Ur S/O Having Friends Of The Opposite Sex?
- Thread starter Goldie
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Golden
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bro can I ask if this has to do with the view u shared in the discussion on Tasha from Insecure?
do u suspect that new niggas wld have that view bout ur wife?
SeaSnake
OG
Yes. I have a few woman friends none of them ive smashed tho. If it was one ive had sex with and she single my s/o will not meet her. I also rather not meet a friend of hers she used to fuck but if she never tells me they fucked id never know anyway.
I think thats a pretty good way to handle it
I think thats a pretty good way to handle it
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
Truth and there is 'nothing' you can do about it. But keeping them away from your lady only show's your lack of trust in her not to do anything.
Not saying "YOU" in particular, but those that feel they need to shield their woman from other men because the men are out to get in the door, are insecure and vice versa.
Notice those who are secure and do not worry on such things do not mind their mates having platonic opposite sex friends.
Golden
Administrator
Yeah, if you've smashed before or wanted/planned to smash though, that's a Hell No. I don't believe in keeping in contact with exes or ex-friends with benefits or whatever tf ppl today are calling it. If you used to view each other like that, I don't want them in the picture. That isn't platonic.
The responsibility to not do anything or respond to the advances is ultimately on her. Other people's designs on you can't go anywhere if you're not game. The ones who are after your girl/man will make themselves known at some point. Whether when they're drunk on new years or when you and your SO have a fight. If your partner doesn't take the bait (and better yet, cuts them off when it becomes evident), it won't go anywhere and the interested party will weed themselves out. Without fail. Life is too short and they're gonna eventually stop playing the long game with you when they realize it's hopeless.
NeighborhoodNomad
the marathon continues........
...And any man wit you, he better be a kin to you now
And I aint jealous it's the principle now...
And I aint jealous it's the principle now...
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
Rapped by a true hypocritical turd , who also has a song about his side chick. :-) lol
#jokes
My mind hasn't changed. No new friends. I'm all the friends you need.
Old friends can stick around. Just know that we all gon chill TOGETHER.
Old friends can stick around. Just know that we all gon chill TOGETHER.
Didn't you frown upon that?
Golden
Administrator
@The Kandy Pants seems 2 offer an intense, 24/7, "there is no u n me, only us", no eye contact with outsiders, kinda love. im impressed
Golden
Administrator
I'm playin with u. if she isnt up to shenanigans, she shld be comfy doing friend things with you there.
Joshie Kahn
"I can fix that"
I feel if you can't trust your s.o. with friends of the opposite sex then you shouldn't be in a relationship. That would be too much weight on my conscience having to worry if she's being faithful, plus men on the hunt don't usually care if she has a man. I'm not saying turn a blind eye and bury your head in the sand when it comes to the people your s.o. hangs out with either. If your woman truly loves you and is faithful to you then you have nothing to worry about.
Joshie Kahn
"I can fix that"
I wanted to say some ignorant meaniejosh shit but I gotta have a reasonable post at least once a day
