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With that being said it's a lot of info covered in this shit so I gotta get serious fr.

Not only that but their lil system is raggedy. Over majority of us can't even log in to complete modules that are needed. That might be a sign
 
TonyDubbz said:
I know this sound like some shit Germs would say but.. These ladies love calling on me during these lil get to know you icebreakers.. idk if its cus I'm the only non-cornball brother in the class or cause they got a thing for ya boy..

just in case it is the latter I always make sure to look directly into my cam and lick my lips a few times throughout the sessions..

I need to stop my shit tho cuz I feel like the proctors that be monitoring are onto me
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Whatever you do my brother DON'T tell them you shit on yourself the other day.
 
Alle’Oxin’Free said:
Nah, I’m not a judgemental person
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Cool

I have been judging myself looking at these IG/ onlyfans thots. I’m like damn you have some that are 10 or so younger than me that make me feel old for looking at them. But they are super legal and rappers that are almost 40, 40+, 50+, 60+ are fucking them.

Then I’m like damn there are some IG/ onlyfans women my age or a little older and I’m like, why are you still doing this. Shouldn’t you be married with kids and not thotting. But then that lady maybe crazy, she does not want to be settled down, and or the man she got still don’t want to settle down at all.

Finally I’m like, I wouldn’t know if I would just stop carring now
 
KingBlafy said:
Cool

I have been judging myself looking at these IG/ onlyfans thots. I’m like damn you have some that are 10 or so younger than me that make me feel old for looking at them. But they are super legal and rappers that are almost 40, 40+, 50+, 60+ are fucking them.

Then I’m like damn there are some IG/ onlyfans women my age or a little older and I’m like, why are you still doing this. Shouldn’t you be married with kids and not thotting. But then that lady maybe crazy, she does not want to be settled down, and or the man she got still don’t want to settle down at all.

Finally I’m like, I wouldn’t know if I would just stop carring now
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The issue there is that you are applying your values and sensibilities to people who don’t have them. In that, you’re elevating them above you as though they are better than you.

However you judge them based off of your sensibilities and not theirs. The reality is that you believe yourself to be better than them but you don’t feel it’s right. So you elevate them above you in a sort of self harm guilt penance that you pay for believing you have a worth greater than theirs

The key is to fully accept and embrace that your values are better than theirs. In looking at yourself in that light, you’ll stop looking at them in an elevated light and see them for who they are.

After seeing them for who they are you won’t lust after them as much and you’ll be drawn to women that radiate your values.

And because you embrace those values yourself and embrace yourself. You’ll see yourself on an even plane with them. Both feeling like they are worth you and you are worth them.

After that, you’ll see that those other women are just fotter to fap to or fuck on occasion and nothing more.
 
Big_Ev said:
I don't get as much spiders as I used to. Now I'm getting them big ass cockroaches that show up every time it rains. It's starting to pissed me off. But talking to people down here, it's common for it to happen. To me it ain't common because I never had to worry about them.
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DemonWP kills EVERYTHING. I order it off Amazon. 4 pouches for like $12. Each pouch mixes with 1 gallon of water.
 
Alle’Oxin’Free said:
However you judge them based off of your sensibilities and not theirs. The reality is that you believe yourself to be better than them but you don’t feel it’s right. So you elevate them above you in a sort of self harm guilt penance that you pay for believing you have a worth greater than theirs

The key is to fully accept and embrace that your values are better than theirs. In looking at yourself in that light, you’ll stop looking at them in an elevated light and see them for who they are.

After seeing them for who they are you won’t lust after them as much and you’ll be drawn to women that radiate your values.

And because you embrace those values yourself and embrace yourself. You’ll see yourself on an even plane with them. Both feeling like they are worth you and you are worth them.

After that, you’ll see that those other women are just fotter to fap to or fuck on occasion and nothing more.
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The reality is that you believe yourself to be better than them but you don’t feel it’s right. So you elevate them above you in a sort of self harm guilt penance that you pay for believing you have a worth greater than theirs
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The reality part

Giving more hope to those that don’t need or want it under a false Disney imagination.
 
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