I ain't saying you're wrong, but stuff like the bold bugs me when I see it. We are all paying for the sexual habits of others. A lot of our tax money goes to funding people who were out fucking recklessly and made a bunch of kids they can't afford. A lot of the criminals and people out there terrorizing society come from broken or single parent homes. STDs are still being spread like Halloween candy. Abortion is a high profile issue that's deciding elections. It's nice to say, people shouldn't worry about anyone else's sex lives, but the reality is the people's sex lives do have an impact on society as a whole.
To her point specifically, I think she was just trying to point out what many men have been saying. The women who ask where good men are shouldn't be asking that question if they have no interest in being the kind of women good men want. At the end of the day, not all good men are looking for virgins, but very few good men are looking for whores.