I agree ,for the 1st video I have never felt like this when i approached a guy. I wouldn't say I pursued someone,
Like even with online dating app example
I have met people from online dating apps, and if matched and I was liking the profile and pics. I would message him. And if I found him on IG , I would like his pictures. It's online flirting, not new. Facebook had poke...like whatever.
And even him saying she drove out to met him 45 minutes away...etc
There is usually a back and forth. Like she message and like his photos, he messaged and liked hers back... his story missing his response
And maybe she did chase this nigga down, maybe it was some Myra and Urkel type shit.
Idk . But I definitely think the way he talking is disrespectful. It doesn't sound like a married man, sound like the way a boyfriend would speak.