How young were you when...
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But that doesn't negate protective nature of a man who loves you.
Don't attack your protector
Which is why I keep my kids on a short leash.
And any one who my kids are around know I don't fuck around.
My life let our daughter hang with her homegirl once.
I made a concious effort to let her know I know Niggaz on her block, and told her shit about her own neighborhood....
I don't fuck around with my kids.... Touch mines funny, you gone
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
It damned sure ain't helping.
Why the fuck are there little girls walking around with their ass cheeks hanging out?
Why are there little girls in the tiniest of skirts or barely there tube tops?
Why are some 13-17 year olds with underboob showing?
Why is the man that protests anything like this and is angered that there are parents basically throwing their young girls to the wolves labeled a pedo for even noticing?
You can't ask us to protect our children then look at us suspiciously when we do it.
I get that. But sometimes it feels like the onus is on girls/women to do things that ultimately don't matter to a predator. People been got at at church, at school, the doctor, the gym, target, work, broad daylight, dead of night, 8am, whether they doing "good" or "bad" shit... a nigga got at me while I was standing right next to my mom. In my grandpa's church. While we were feeding the homeless for thanksgiving. I was 12. I had my elementary school sweatshirt on. Lmao. Like niggas (again, catch-all) do not care where you are or how you look.
Now, a 14 yr old girl coming out the house lookin like blac chyna....go tf back inside and change. Young girls with fake IDs tryna hang out in the club...take yo ass back home and do some homework. Absolutely in agreement about that.
We don't disagree here bruh...lol
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Shit an immediate family member told me that a friend of the family molested her when she was 4 and it was a woman, that family member of mine is now in her 40’s. I don’t trust neither one with my baby. Female or male.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Word, I dressed mostly in jeans and T-shirt’s as I do now. I had grown ass men telling me I was thick and I was a child. Even in baggy jeans and T-shirt’s smh. I looked like a baby and they gave zero fucks.
Humans are fucked up creatures. This is a fact.
A lot of us are sick. Evidence is literally everywhere.
It's commonn knowledge.
And since we can't kill sick people with out going to jail, we sometimes attempt preventative measures.
With young girls, sometimes the best we got is try to cover yourself up until you fully grasp the weight of the sexuality.
That's the best we got.
If our women are going to be preyed on, it's not going to be done without at least an effort of trying to avoid it.
I get the whole "teach boys/men to not be sexual predators" sentiment..... But that's like saying... But unless you just ignoring crazy signs, that's not some shit that's openly displayed
A lot of us are sick. Evidence is literally everywhere.
It's commonn knowledge.
And since we can't kill sick people with out going to jail, we sometimes attempt preventative measures.
With young girls, sometimes the best we got is try to cover yourself up until you fully grasp the weight of the sexuality.
That's the best we got.
If our women are going to be preyed on, it's not going to be done without at least an effort of trying to avoid it.
I get the whole "teach boys/men to not be sexual predators" sentiment..... But that's like saying... But unless you just ignoring crazy signs, that's not some shit that's openly displayed
Same. Granted I was tall for my age but one look at my face and how I dressed woulda told you I was nowhere near an adult.
GNS
Kindness To The Enemy Is Cruelty To Our Own People
It is white shit they do it more
Doesn't mean negros don't do it at all
Ma i already stated this, it's too late to argue babe, I'm tired
My point is we shouldn't be labeling something as "white" when every culture has to deal with it. I bet if you polled Mexicans and other Latinos you'd see a similar theme of many people having stories of being hit on as children. And don't even bring up the backwards ass middle east, especially gang raping ass india...
Never forget that time I caught a vibe about a cousin and EVERYBODY told me I was geeking.....
EVERYBODY......
And as y'all can prolly tell about me from the way I post....I sometimes geek..
I often bring a lot of...... Energy into situations... And I have been dead wrong in the past
So taking this into account, I dropped the issue. I let them convince me I was geeking.
Years later it comes out I was right. And it was way way worse than anyone could even imagine.
Yo I lost it. Cuz the family already had this nigga in hiding.
I never called so many people bitches in one night.
It blows me how people will protect these Niggaz
EVERYBODY......
And as y'all can prolly tell about me from the way I post....I sometimes geek..
I often bring a lot of...... Energy into situations... And I have been dead wrong in the past
So taking this into account, I dropped the issue. I let them convince me I was geeking.
Years later it comes out I was right. And it was way way worse than anyone could even imagine.
Yo I lost it. Cuz the family already had this nigga in hiding.
I never called so many people bitches in one night.
It blows me how people will protect these Niggaz
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
I think the whole gay pedo shit is by and large some WPS. When you hear about someone fucking with little boys 99.99928% of the time it's a white man. The most prolific child rapists in American history have basically all been white. The vast majority of those female teachers caught fucking their students were white.
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
In the Mexican state of Nayarit a child becomes LEGAL at the onset of puberty, regardless of the age it happens.
The federal age of consent in Mexico is 12. I wouldn't hesitate to believe anything a child says about being raped there.
And India is quite possibly the worst country for rape.
Soul_Rattler
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Did it impact the way you think about sex or men in general?
To @konceptjones point, I'm not trying to spark a "man hate bait" thread, but I wonder if, Just like an absentee father, sexual predators in the family and neighborhood can have a profound affect on how we view sex. Many either lean into it as adults and go sex crazy, many turn gay, some shut it down completely, some end up looking at all men/women a certain type of way making it hard to be in a relationship.
Soul_Rattler
Active Member
In Chicago it was common to hear from girls as young as 15 making it inside nightclubs and strip clubs. And the ones I knew like that ended up either EXTREMELY sexually active or flat out prostitutes, both of which are rabbitholes to even worse problems.
For some reason this society doesn't want to have a nuanced conversation. As if it's impossible to both condemn predatory men AND discourage provocative (root word, to provoke) behavior in women and young girls.