Nah this aint itI agree, but not in that context.
Dude wasn't just contacting her to be contacting her.
All he was looking for was an explanation for why she suddenly cut him off.
She didn't think she owed him an explanation, but.......by not giving him one.......that just exasperated the situation and made it worse.
Shit just didn't make sense to him and that's the only reason why he kept pressing her.
She told him 'sometimes you be doing to much
What does he proceed to do? Too much
Again, don't try to absolve that nigga of his fuck niggas tendencies. He wanted a long drawn out answer so he could attack each of her points instead of acknowledging that he be doing to much.